After thinking of that dilema of 'amuna osakhulupilika', many questions remain unsolved and am hoping kuti ndiyankhidwa. How long should it be for an individual to know that they've got a soulmate? When to tie the knot or commit yourself completely? For me, i dont really care either way but live each day as if its my last coz am responsible for my own state of mind. Bring the ideas on!