i was happy with the topic jade brought forward and would like to say i liked what you guys commented and the postings were indeed rich and full of eye openings i salute you guys AMALAWI MUMAGANIZa I also wanted to say that real love is gone ? i can only define marriages and relationships nowadays as arrangements where you share lies ,Sex ,disappointments and broken hearts. Let me not discourage you guys but if i were to write a book right now i would finish it in an hour .and i can call "WHO IS HAVING WHO " My advice for those who are getting married and are alredy married watch what yr patner is doing.and not saying you have to be possesive no .you will only drive yr patner away .He /she is responsible for yr life so watch out for what he /she is doing with it. If you turn a blind eye to what am saying one day you will regret this is real. CHILUNGAMO CHACHEPA ,CHIKONDI CHATHA, CHONDE SAMALANI
I also agree with the fact that there don't seem to be anymore love left in this life. it's simply for convenience. Somehow all over a sudden all the people that you wanna be with,are people you can't have. come to think of it, you are hitched and then in about 2 months you realise actually you wanted another one and not the one you are with. & then eventually you start chasing this other one, and mebbe you get her or mebbe you don't, either way you are caught in twi worlds. kind like living someone else's life, like you are trapped. and then you could be in your twenties and have so many years to live and knowing you could have been with someone else. It's sad and damned are all those who are feeling like that. But wot do you know, love is still out there somewhere only breathing thru life support!! May all those who wish to go ahead and redeem it do so. When it happens it's a good thing, when it doesn't and you are there sitting waiting for it to happen, you could be one of the damned!!!
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