game wrote:

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are you single?can you keep a man?why are you moaning?you sound like you havent been screwed in a long time.why?

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Touche!!!!! Am single but attached!!!Rather, Can a man keep and satisfy me?? Looks like i havent been screwed??? I make love  but that's not the point and you know it!!! Actually your posting hasnt enlightened me at all. Bring up the real stuff mate!

YTP wrote:

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One major thing i have noticed  is that society still believes that a woman's place is in the kitchen and that it's ok for a man to cheat but a woman who cheats is a slut and a whore. At least a woman can be single at 30 and not be regarded as an old maid and its ok to be the bread-winner in the family but one cant be the head. Why??? We are in the 21st century but we are still a stuck up pple. We are also made to believe that a beautiful woman is a perfect 10--------too bad if you are a 16!!! Do you think all these would change if 50% of the newspaper editors were women and if we had women leading in most organisations? I know that The BBC head is a woman hence less sexual issues but other major organisations are headed by men. Trust me, am not moaning about equal rights cos i know that's what you might think. This is stemming from the fact that women are noticeably the lesser sex and if you do something different, you definately are 'odd'!!!!

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The Beeb is not headed by a woman.director general is Mark Thompson,a man,deputy is Mark Byford,a man.i would suggest a bit more research nexttime around.good day.

YTP wrote

Thanx for the correction. Thought no-one wud notice!!!! My bad!!!!

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Eagle eye love!

guevara wrote:

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Eagle eye love!

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Couldn't agree more!!! All's well that ends well i guess...

 But isnt it funny when we tend to view women as the lesser sex and we call ourselves partners?A good xample is what if Victoria had Cheated instead of Becks? Actually, it was Rabecca who was called a tramp and Beckham was left scot-free. Was it about chamkabudula sichikhala?

That is ridiculous. Women are not the lesser sex. Any man with ample experience with them would tell you that.

You see when women decided to move into the board rooms the game changed for them. They had to face the same ruthless treatment that men dished out to themselves - instead of ruling the world by batting their eyelids that they always have.

So when women moan about being called sluts and men go scott-free, or about women having less positions of "power" (and please no Condi Rice on this forum as she's absolutely despicable) it's just women doing what they do best, MOAN!

I mean, I doubt if women would even enjoy the role of being praised for their sexual "prowess" as men are when they have multiple partners. There is an evolutionary reason why that is so.

YTP wrote:

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One major thing i have noticed  is that society still believes that a woman's place is in the kitchen and that it's ok for a man

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YTP those ideas are coming because you are a woman yourself. Women need guidance from men. If all leaders were women, the earth could have been horrific as hell. It’s difficult for a man to help a fellow man, but it’s easy for him to help a woman. Ever noticed how cruel women are? They can neither help a man or a fellow woman. Women lack all qualities of leadership except keeping secrets, women are cowards, selfish, cold-hearted and have low thinking capabilities. I have seen women with top jobs who put their men in the kitchens. They part quicker than one can ever imagine, it doesn’t work at all. I say they deserve to be in  kitchens and prepare nice Nsima ya thelere la Soda for us, coz these kind of marriages last forever!

 

Abuhakim Mchawa

am not suprised this is coming from you @ all .given your cultural background ,you think nothing about women but kak .

whats all this about? isnt it about  emotions here.

i mean i remember this rich dude who vowed never to employe ladies of child bearing age cause of all the katundu they bring with them. the nation was livid with this guy as he was accused of being sexist while infact he was dead right. for example seen what has happened with this years winner of the  sir sugars apprentice? totally useless moaning all the time about long hours she has to work them hormones take over, then she breaks down, then depressed, then she goes on holiday, then shes pregnant, then more depressed, then she wants more time off, then miscarry then she wants a year off.......

meanwhile 2005 winner is busy impressing the boss working as hard as ever.

i dont want to be mean to women 3% or less are really good on what they do if  but many leaves alot to be desired.

most of then will chose the shortcut they will flirt to get whatever they want and they are proud of it some even here on malawiana have confessed to it but unfortunately the boys in town wont be having it in the near future so unless you ladies pull up your soxes muthyakula for sometime. you will have to have balls stand for yourselves instead of rushing to ladies to cryout the reality of business.

golddigga wrote:

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I dont even know why you women are morning here,men are DOGS and they will always be.If you are working hard they will find an excuse that you are not spending more time at home and they wil accuse you of cheating with you boss,if you are a house wife they will be f........ some whore at work.Men are cowards to me that is why i play with their stupid minds only have then when i need them but they give me money anyway.Mind you i have a good job but because i know how stupid (MEN)are i use them coz they dont appreciate what they have.Ladie believe me you dont know your HUSBANDS so clean up their accounts b4 u lose everything.

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maybe men use you,how can they appreciate you when definately you strut your muddy behind wanting a nookie for money.and in your case maybe you only meet guilde dogs,they are harmless,next time you wont shoot your mouth like that when you meet a bull terrier like me.

Go to hell ya all CHEATING IS NATURAL we all are doing it so is your mum,so is your dad.Shut up

game wrote:

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trying to agree with abre that woment will always be mute surbodinates of men,period.arbert enstein's imtelligence was engineered by a woman yet he got all the credit and thats a fact.Its the nature in which humans operate,we only need a woman to inspire us to greatness,with her support and love,we stand on two feet.But we cant be equal.my mother is the greatest woman i have ever known but when i started being being independent,she started calling me achimwene and let me run the affairs of the home.

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That is how society decreed humans to be. From way back, we've been meant to believe that a woman will always be second to a man. If a girl was agreat achiever, she would be called 'mamuna'. The press and society has alot to answer for and didnt i read somewhere that behind a successful man there's a woman and behind a successful woman......?? Maybe am wrong but i believe that given the same chances, both sexes would excel without brows being raised or thinking that a woman achiever is extraordinary. Men tend to be doers or get the credit for almost everything and sometimes  get away with stuff that a woman wouldn't dream of doing and we all sit pretty, comfortable with our skin.

Game, your mother calling you achimwene didn't mean THAT literally but as Mwians, that's to show kuti mwakula and affection. I bet she called your sisters 'chemwali' as well but that's how it is. Asking for your opinion meant she saw you as a responsible adult who would one day be independent as you are now.

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YTP wrote:

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One major thing i have noticed  is that society still believes that a woman's place is in the kitchen and that it's ok for a man to cheat but a woman who cheats is a slut and a whore.

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YTP,

Dont you think that women have themselves to blame for some of these things?For instance in terms of dressing say when you are going to funeral,when someone dresses in a different way,is this not the time we hear other women saying"kumeneko sikuvala kwa chi zimayi"and yet azibambo we dont say that to each other no matter what the other fella puts on?Is it not fellow women who lead the choruses of dissaproval when another woman becomes different by saying "mkazi sapanga choncho?"Is it not women(mothers!) who chase girls to go to the kitchen and "prepare something" for their brother when she finds her sitting and watching TV with the brother saying "mlongo wakoyi ali ndi njala"Should now men be blamed for what women do to each other in the name  of political correctness?We are only the beneficiaries,we are not the cause.So when you say society you should  put "women"in front of that word.

But this does not mean  that men are saints or women are angels.At the end of the day,how we treat or view the opposite sex depends on ones upbringing,its more likely that what we saw or see our parents do to each other have a bearing in what we turn out to be and treat our spouses.Women always try to potray themselves as victims  but  things like domestic violence happen to even men as I witnessed long time back when I was young between our neighbour,a Mr and Mrs Nkhoma,one thing for sure mzibambo amakutumulidwa uyu mpakana kuthawila kwathu!!!,it was shocking but indeed we do have women who are controlling,cunning,vicious and ruthless just like their male counterparts and unfortunately  such women use "sex" as a weapon to control a man.Due to the "need"factor,men can be easily manipulated and controlled by such women to "steal",turn against friends and relatives and other things,such women get almost everything that they want using their "weapon",lets be honest,just like the gangsters and drug dealers discovered in Colombia about three weeks ago in the "crossed leg"strike by their women folk,deprivation of such is enough to drive any normal man insane.

I dont agree with those men who think that a womans place is in the kitchen but its never gonna be a union of equals no matter how much harder everyone works towards that.However as said, people treat their partners differently,others are in happy relationships whilst others are in miserable ones(applies to both sexes!!),it all depends on the respect,trust and most of all the love that you feel for one another,who is what in the relationship is of secondary importance to those that have love,respect and trust for each other.

GUEVARA, yo ma mum aint for grabs right now she is f............ your DAD.