"It was my hope that after being born in the UK,and spent most of my life in Embassies outside Malawi,with just two to three months visit in every three to five years,this forum would be where we could talk about development for people who have a chance or completely dont have.I have been lucky and blessed to have it all."

I am not sure that I fully understand what you are saying here.  But I am going to go for it.  In the event that I do misunderstand, please do not hesitate to let me know.  This forum IS for all that you have mentioned and more too.  But from earlier "discussions" I will say once again that I personally are leary with discussions pertaining to Malawi's development.  My views were posted earlier, and I wont repeat myself. 

Glad to know that you grew up with priviledges and all, but what does that have to do with what we are currently discussing

"I am worthy alot and living right now in TOKYO where i am both an Electronics Engineer and a businessman."

Then permit me to ask that if you are "WORTHY" a lot, perhaps you should have been the one offering suggestions on how we too can progress.  As a side note, I wasn't sure if you meant "wealth" or "worth"

"It is with sadness that you sound as if you dont want to share your stories of how you succeded on this forum to help others who cant access most of the things i had access to,who have tried hard and dont know how to go further."

Perhaps it is just me, but I deal in definitives and not abstracts.  Success can be measured at different levels too -- but we are not getting into that.  Rather, let me say that I do not consider myself "successful".  Mind you, I am very proud of the accomplishments I have at this point, but for me the journey is not over.  I still have a few things I am working on, so perhaps I am not the best person to "advise" anyone else on how they can succeed since I do not think that I am there yet.  If anyone was to ask me for advise on anything that I do know, then yes, I will offer my services.  As for having access to stuff, glad to know you had it so good my brother.  I certainly do not begrudge you your fortune, but hope you utilized it to the fullest.

"I pray and hope that the moderator,kunjanji,mamacita think of a way that this forum becomes a medium of directions,instructions and in short a testmonial area for people who need encouragement to do better in life."

Then this forum would cease to be fun and no one would want to be part of it -- just my opinion though. Maybe the moderator agrees with you.

"It is my hope that alot of Malawians become worthy like i am,even if their fathers were not ministers or government officials."

Every individual is WORTH something.  Now as for WEALTH, for some of us, it is NOT our driving force.  Mind you, I do want to live a comfortable life, but I can certainly assure you that for me, acquiring wealth is NOT something I aspire to do.  I have other things I want to be part of, that I am happy with, and that I strive for, and leave all that to the Oprah's and etc.s of the world. 

"...I have people in Malawi that owe me MILLIONS,but all i am happy to hear is that they have employed other people.......THAT IS ALL"

Now, Chilungamobasi -- what does the above have to do with anything or this discussion?  If you have made money and are successful by your own standards, perhaps you should be the one to offer suggestions on how other people can succeed or 'progress'.  It's only fair-don't you think

Just my 2 cents of a stunk opinion...kudos

well..... first of all, people that want to help don't brag about their achievements. HOW DARE YOU BRAG ABOUT GROWING UP IN THE EMBASIES..... ALL IT SAYS ABOUT YOU IS THIS.... YOU GROW UP ON MALAWI GOVERMENT MONEY....OUR MONEY...I DON'T RESPECT ANY ONE WHO IS RICH BECAUSE OF THE SO CALLED MALAWI GOVERNMENT. OBVIOUSLY I AM NOT RESPECTING YOU, AND I THINK I SPEAK FOR THE WHOLE CROWD. JUST IN CASE YOU DIDN'T KNOW.... THE ARMY, EMBASSY,TAKE PEOPLE'S MONEY AND ABUSE IT. IF THAT MAKES YOU PROUD, THEN I DON'T EVEN NEED TO DEAL WITH YOU.... VILLAGER.
YOU GOT A POINT THOUGH.... WE NEED TO HELP THOSE PEOPLE IN MALAWI AND THOSE THAT ARE LESS FORTUNATE, WE NEED TO STOP SPENDING THE POOR PEOPLE'S MONEY AND BRAG ABOUT IT ON THE NET.... THAT'S PRETTY SHALLOW, WOULDN'T YOU AGREE???? SECONDLY, SINCE YOU ARE THE REASON THESE PEOPLE ARE POOR, ITS TIME YOU GIVE IT BACK.... DON'T YOU AGREE.... SO I SAY TO ALL THOSE PEOPLE THAT OWE YOU MILLIONS IN MALAWI, BELGIUM, OR WHEREVER, YOU CLAIM YOUR TWO CENTS WENT..... PLEASE KEEP THAT MONEY, ON BEHALF OF ME AND EVERY MALAWIAN THAT WORKED HARD FOR THAT MONEY.
LAST BUT NOT LEAST, UNLESS YOU ARE DONALD TRUMP.... PLEASE DON'T COME HERE AND BRAG ABOUT YOUR LOUSY ACHIEVEMENTS.... I HOPE THOSE PEOPLE IN JAPAN WILL KUNFU YOUR SORRY BEHIND BACK TO DEDZA, WHERE YOU BELONG......