Members Login
Username 
 
Password 
    Remember Me  
Post Info TOPIC: Love


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 397
Date:
Love
Permalink Closed


ok in my opinion, the words ''i love you'' are abused, by most people. however, i also believe that no one can try and judge someone else's ''love''. if you feel you love someone, you shouldn't feel you have to refrain from telling them. admittedly you'll probably end up looking back and saying ''ok, i didn't actually love that person'', but surely its a learning curve?


although i see the argument that the words have lost meaning somewhat, i feel generally that cynicism towards ''love'' is also wrong. who knows what love is? who can say that two people don't love eachother? noone. so ... love is subjective. if you think you feel it, then you do. any objections?


*Kiss*



__________________
SUN GODDE'SS (The Earth Mother , Queen of Africa and Warrior Activist and Conqueror Ancestral Spirit and Revolutionary Mayibuye!)


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 2423
Date:
Permalink Closed

Love is a trick played on us by nature to ensure the continuation of the species

__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 272
Date:
Permalink Closed

abre les ojos wrote:


Love is a trick played on us by nature to ensure the continuation of the species

You have got to be kidding me. People do make babies without love being involved.

__________________
Miss Thang "To educate a man is to educate an individual but to educate a woman is to educate a whole nation and people" MALCOM X


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 1215
Date:
Permalink Closed

miss thang


are you saying one night stands or hit it and quit it stuff,dont forget that these days genes and DNA are used to make clones,so the continuation of species.



__________________
all i have is my word,and i dont break it for nobody.


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 2423
Date:
Permalink Closed

I know, but "love" just makes sure it happens in other cases.

__________________


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 1215
Date:
Permalink Closed

 


somebody once said that love is nothing but a four letter word that deceives the air,when two people are sexually locked up into each other could mean less or more than love but communion.(sp)when you fail to make a woman cum everytime you lay in the pipe call it selfishness,but let her cum first then you later,you will feel the contraction and the thumping of the punani,thats when you know job is done.you've made love to her.


dont just get up and go but hold her tight make her feel loved and appreciated,speak to her in a tone that says,that was hi-tech,this frees her mind and takes her through the emotional outerspace where tender love reigns supreme,believe me she will come back tomorrow begging and gagging for more.thats what we call pleasing a woman by making love to her.i know that we men are born inept sexually we only know how to please a woman by being with a woman who appreciates,a woman who can guilde you through the whole process of love making is a real woman,but those who just lay there and let you operate on a log dont deserve all this.



__________________
all i have is my word,and i dont break it for nobody.


Newbie

Status: Offline
Posts: 46
Date:
Permalink Closed

Koma Game, aponzonadi. Mwandikumbutsa zambiri ine.

__________________
What don't kill you can only make you stronger!!


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 2423
Date:
Permalink Closed

Game, I think you're losing it...

__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 272
Date:
Permalink Closed

Game


That is easier said than done. if all men were like you wouldn't this world be a happier place.


So then game..........



__________________
Miss Thang "To educate a man is to educate an individual but to educate a woman is to educate a whole nation and people" MALCOM X


Veteran Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 111
Date:
Permalink Closed

game wrote:


when you fail to make a woman cum everytime you lay in the pipe call it selfishness,but let her cum first then you later,you will feel the contraction and the thumping of the punani,thats when you know job is done.you've made love to her. dont just get up and go but hold her tight make her feel loved and appreciated,speak to her in a tone that says,that was hi-tech,this frees her mind and takes her through the emotional outerspace where tender love reigns supreme,believe me she will come back tomorrow begging and gagging for more.thats what we call pleasing a woman by making love to her.


Oh my my my, hmm hmm hmm, damn Game, brother you are so gooood, you really made my toes curl. I do hope you are as good as you sound, hmm hmm hmm! I was so unfortunate with my fellow countrymen (in the dating game) and I decided to venture into the sporadic races, you see it was all about them. It's nice to see that we do have some who put their partner's pleasure into consideration too. Hey Game, can you do me a favour, can you give some of these tips to my new boyfriend, Nyasaland, I want him to be able to work me out like this. I like a man who likes to go Downtown!!!!!!



__________________
LONG LIVE KAMUZU!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 651
Date:
Permalink Closed

IF A MAN WANTS YOU
This was/is good.... and very true!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies.....
You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT...........




This was sent to me by a lady friend,its not my own work.Copy it,redistribute it,no problem.

__________________
For have I now become your enemy for telling you the truth?-Galatians 4 v16.


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 240
Date:
Permalink Closed

Ngwazi just reading that made me think those points are so very true.  Sometimes ladies we make excuses when our relationships aint doing right.  This goes back to the same saying that says treat others as u like to be treated.  Same goes with a man treat a man the way u like to be treated.  Dont let a man take over ur life, let him be ur partner true true.  I enjoyed reading that i will have to send this to ma girlz

__________________
Jesus is the answer for the world today and above him there is no other


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 240
Date:
Permalink Closed

game wrote:


  somebody once said that love is nothing but a four letter word that deceives the air,when two people are sexually locked up into each other could mean less or more than love but communion.(sp)when you fail to make a woman cum everytime you lay in the pipe call it selfishness,but let her cum first then you later,you will feel the contraction and the thumping of the punani,thats when you know job is done.you've made love to her. dont just get up and go but hold her tight make her feel loved and appreciated,speak to her in a tone that says,that was hi-tech,this frees her mind and takes her through the emotional outerspace where tender love reigns supreme,believe me she will come back tomorrow begging and gagging for more.thats what we call pleasing a woman by making love to her.i know that we men are born inept sexually we only know how to please a woman by being with a woman who appreciates,a woman who can guilde you through the whole process of love making is a real woman,but those who just lay there and let you operate on a log dont deserve all this.


Wow Game I hope thats how u treat ur woman cuz talk is cheap.  If u do shes one of the lucky ones, cuz its hard to find a man that would enjoy  to pleasure a woman like that. 


 



__________________
Jesus is the answer for the world today and above him there is no other


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 161
Date:
Permalink Closed

game, hey thanks for tip but can you now tell us how to achieve that or should i ask ladies on the forum the ' how about'?

__________________
amdala
CJ


Newbie

Status: Offline
Posts: 36
Date:
Permalink Closed

A  lot of people be mistaking love with lust. after a hot sex session with their partner, they go " I LOVE YOU" when infact its their hormones going all out.  so check yourself. people need to start seperating the two.





one love.

__________________


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 1215
Date:
Permalink Closed

Amdala


the answer to your question is simple,fore play,dont  just grab your woman to the bedroom and say tsinzinani nufuna nivule,nanunso kavulani,ya ine simuyiwona,no we dont do that.talk to her,be touchy and all lovie dovy, she will tell you when she is ready for you to stick dick.but when you go in before she is ready thats when you hurt her bad,next time she will be reluctant to make love to you.remember sweet nothings are a fundamental element to ecstacy just dont over do it.



__________________
all i have is my word,and i dont break it for nobody.


Guru

Status: Offline
Posts: 1277
Date:
Permalink Closed

Game,koma ndakumva amwene.You have explained love in bed and am sure you need to be invited one of these days by some members.But as CJ said it is just a fullfilment of hormones desires.But hey lets be honest how do we analyse this word love in our house do we really do as we write.In old days you would tell your teen girlmate that you eat love dream love walk love or love to love and etc, and yet perform badly in bed.Does love result in babies as you are trying to make believe, let me xplain love............................................the good feeling of your neighbour and the other one is the one in bed

__________________
If Iam not for myself,who will be for me?And if Iam only for myself,what am I?
Page 1 of 1  sorted by
 
Quick Reply

Please log in to post quick replies.

Tweet this page Post to Digg Post to Del.icio.us


Create your own FREE Forum
Report Abuse
Powered by ActiveBoard