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On the homepage of Malawiana, it is well written: "Connecting malawians". Malawians are connecting on this forum and at the same time they are fighting.  I have realised that presently there are PERSONAL  fights between


SPOILED, LADY B vs. MISS THANG (topics: Wedding bells, Miss Thang)


ABRE  vs.  CHICHI (topic: beliefs/religion)


MBILI YA KU NJANJI vs. JOLENE (topic: wakusina...)


What do you think is the solution to these fights? Any punishments, rewards(if any) to the 'fighters'? How can people stick to the subject without going too personal?Any suggestions? Everyone should answer this.



-- Edited by malawian at 07:08, 2005-08-10

-- Edited by malawian at 07:10, 2005-08-10

-- Edited by malawian at 07:12, 2005-08-10

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malawian vs amdala..


              iwe ukufuna utakhala referree?



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A bit of anonymous conflict never hurt anyone.

-- Edited by abre les ojos at 08:48, 2005-08-10

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Abre, are you sure I kinda realised that people take it very personal even beyond anonymity.

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amdala wrote:


malawian vs amdala..               iwe ukufuna utakhala referree?

 Inu Amdala simuudziwa kuti malawian ndi munthu wokonda mtendere?

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There have been greater wars on this forum. The better way is to just sit back and watch or comment if you want to. I think we get to know more about the people behind these fake names when people exchange words.


sepu  


 



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I disagree. Never take what you read in this forum as indicative of anyone's true personality or character. Why?


The anonymity gives people the chance to role-play and the absence of seeing people - being face to face makes us misjudge whether one is laughing, pretending or taking it personal. You just can't tell. The best way I think is not to take anything seriously. It is fun taking the piss out of someone when you can't see them; you lose the risk of getting punched in the nose.



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Abre i couldn't say it better

*Kiss*

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Really, its funny went u don`t know em and wen they don`t know u cos it seems Miss Thang angakugwire pakhosi! Sorry, Don`t tek it personal! I kid I kid.



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Wanganya mweeee!!!!!! Titemwanenge, pulizi.

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If pple r fighting abot ideas, its all god. If they are fighting about other peoples business or about he said she said - take it elseweher.


Malawian, I dont see nothing wrong with a little healthy discussion - its good for our minds, and good for Malawi ~ do nothing about these.


 


 



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Wanganya mweeee!!!!!! Titemwanenge, pulizi.

I agree because sometimes as u said B. Panther, it  may look healthy but still I suspect that some people know each other, so they take it as very personal.

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People come on this forum to unwind after a hard day  at work or school. I don't see nothing wrong with the arguments that go on on this forum coz i think the are fun and healthy.


 If i know someone on this forun and they pissed me off, i would talk to them direct not through this forum.


And if i argue with someone on this forum, this is where it ends cos as soon as i log off something else occupies my mind.


As for me kukugwira pakhosi, well thats something for me to know and for you to find out!


I don't think there are any enermities on this forum, well at least i don't hate anyone and i don't take anything said here too seriously



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this is a discussion forum whatever is said here stays here.  Why should u take it personal they is no reason for that.  Say what u think and comment on what u want to comment on and move on.  I hope no one loses sleep over malawiana that would be just pathetic.  I like pple to say what they think and just tell the truth.  If ur going to comment do so to the best of ur ability. I fo one have love fo everyone on this forum its interesting because we are not all the same, because if we were this would be a very boring place.  We would have nothing to talk about. 


All of ya'll have a blessed day and remember to count ur blessings



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malawian wrote:


On the homepage of Malawiana, it is well written: "Connecting malawians". Malawians are connecting on this forum and at the same time they are fighting.  I have realised that presently there are PERSONAL  fights between SPOILED, LADY B vs. MISS THANG (topics: Wedding bells, Miss Thang) ABRE  vs.  CHICHI (topic: beliefs/religion) MBILI YA KU NJANJI vs. JOLENE (topic: wakusina...) What do you think is the solution to these fights? Any punishments, rewards(if any) to the 'fighters'? How can people stick to the subject without going too personal?Any suggestions? Everyone should answer this.-- Edited by malawian at 07:08, 2005-08-10 -- Edited by malawian at 07:10, 2005-08-10 -- Edited by malawian at 07:12, 2005-08-10

malawian.....what are you saying?I was just correcting him or her...nothing personal

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peace comes after storm... as long as we reconcile after math i dont see trouble with the 'fights' after all malawian is a good ref....

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QUOTE : I have realised that presently there are PERSONAL  fights between SPOIILED, LADY B vs. MISS THANG (topics: Wedding bells, Miss Thang)
What do you think is the solution to these fights?


With regards to the whole “Wedding bells” (LADY B, vs. MS THANG) issue, I think the best solution would be for Ms Thang is to BUTT out..!! What’s it to her whose gettn married…!! Amenewo ndi maboza, I don’t believe it was done in good faith…Why are u so concerned with other ppl’s business anyhow..??
If the ppl involved who were gettn married wanted to share it with the WHOLE FORUM, I think they shld have done so by now…( dont u think...??)
Yes Lady B has found a man that makes her really happy….and I personally wish her all the best….SO PLEASE (PPL like Ms Thang) don’t jinx this…!!



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QUOTE : I have realised that presently there are PERSONAL  fights between SPOIILED, LADY B vs. MISS THANG (topics: Wedding bells, Miss Thang) What do you think is the solution to these fights? With regards to the whole “Wedding bells” (LADY B, vs. MS THANG) issue, I think the best solution would be for Ms Thang is to BUTT out..!! What’s it to her whose gettn married…!! Amenewo ndi maboza, I don’t believe it was done in good faith…Why are u so concerned with other ppl’s business anyhow..?? If the ppl involved who were gettn married wanted to share it with the WHOLE FORUM, I think they shld have done so by now…( dont u think...??) Yes Lady B has found a man that makes her really happy….and I personally wish her all the best….SO PLEASE (PPL like Ms Thang) don’t jinx this…!!

I believe that the topic you are refering to is finito. Move on

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As o Mdala said;after storm  comes peace, then it's cool that a sense of  peace is back on the forum.


C'est fini Monsieurs et Mesdames!



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Oui Malawian, Juste assurer que la putain (MS THANG) recoit le  message....!!!

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Hey MalawiN1 tu parles aussi cette langue? Peut-tu m'ecrire? Envois mois un message.



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