Is it true that when a girl finds a guy who is well settled and lives a comfortable life, she's after his money? Is it true that money comes first and then love?
I've said this coz a friend of mine found a very handsome, intelligent, comfortable man and people think she fell for him coz he has money. She says she love him naturally and the rest of the things don't count. She's so frustrated about how people will look at her. The guy is divorced, mind you.
Kwacha, to be real with you no matter the financial status the man is people could still have said something about your girl. It's funny when I read some contributions and we keep saying Amalawi this Amalawi that but do you know that thus the norm of human society now, it's not only Malawi community where you hear people dissing or just pure gossiping each other. I think everywhere where wealth is concerned people will always say something. Look at Donald Trump and his new wife, the first thing people magazine asked after thier wedding was "Did you sign the prenups?" And I know they were not asking the Trump but the wife just because she is somebody we don't know about. How about the engagement of the world's richest girl - Onassis - to this Jokey, when you look at their picture to me they look such a happy couple and mainly considering the fact that this girl never smiled when posing for pictures and now you see her smilling all over and yet all the magazines are saying that the Jokey is just there for her inherited riches. It's all in your girlfriends heart, she knows what she wants herself and c'mon guys who would want to start their married life pa Mbayani while a door at Namiwawa is open (no am just kidding don't kill me).
Hey!!! Love and money of-course go together!!!! What if you met a totally penniless dude who couldnt offer anything, even a movie once in a while? How would you spend your time and what would you be doing with him in the first place? Damn gal!!!! Grab 'em all!!!!
Just dont kid yourself though cos if its money you are after then poor dude. If its them together you are after, then my hat to you. Ukuona bwa iweyo?
having money is a blessing but dont forget that those blessings can be taken away. If its money we are after work fo it and God will bless u more abundantly. When u find love cherish it because that lasts foever. If u love someone because of there bank account what if that money is gone muzasungana bwanji. Love is a very huge gift from God and it doesnt come so often. That unconditional love if u know what am talking about the love that fuels u up in the morning and keeps u going fo the rest of the day I would trade that feeling any day with money. The love that makes life so wonderful to live, the love that no money can buy, the feeling that lifts u up like ur on cloud nine thats what am talking about. Trust me that feeling is better than any money u'll ever acumulate in this world.
Money is good in life because u live better but its not better than love. First u find love then all of the things just fall in its place
love is beautiful
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it could sound differrent if it was the guy finding the girl, but now it is the girl finding the guy! possibly she really was/ is after the bank notes! nanga sitizifunsa kuti iyeyo nthawi yonsei amadikira chani? waona chani, dola? umadziwa amalawife pakamwa...
easy, zocheza aise. the thing is you have that guy treat him right, oyankhulawo zawo, iwowo ngati azimuna awo alibe mbongo, zawo. ngati akusilira, zawo.