I have always wondered why is it that when a woman loves beer (or any kind of drink with alcohol) is labeled a whore, be it that she buys her own drinks and drinks clean (no monkey business involved) but society will look at her as one. You add salt to the wound if you are even a smoker too.
I love my MGD and I promise you when I walk into a pub I do it with a fat purse and that’s all I am gonna do, sit on that stool and talk to the bar man and I drink responsibly. I have two sistas I know here who are heavy drinkers, when I say heavy these two sistas mean business. One day I walked up to one and asked her the above and what she feels about it, she said to me “I have lived with that but the truth lives within me and those close to me and for the rest I don’t care”, and I thought to myself maybe I should go with the same attitude but I promise you it’s not easy to grow this kinda thick skin, I just wish all this would go away one day and people start respecting women who love their alcohol.
It’s the same with guys who drink heavily not all are womanisers, there are sober guys who I know and are womanisers that you would think playing around is going out of fashion. I know of guys who just love their alcohol and it ends there and there are a lot of them
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"Give me a woman who loves beer and I'll conquer the world"... Kaiser Wilhelm
Believe you me, no mata wat u do, not everyone is gonna be pleased with u so da best u can do is please urself first. As u pointed out, u know 2 sistas who drink like nobody's business and dey dont give a hoot about wat is said so long as dem demselves know da truth. Take it from dem babes and live ur life to da fullest. U only live once. Y care wat others think who dont mata in ur life anyway? Sum pple were born bita so hey why shud u allow dem to pull u down???? Eehh?!!!!
Gal !!!!!!!!!! You Just hit the nerve , i love my drink and my Cig
and yes they label one as a whore , but you know what its just ignorant . I Buy my own drink , imean fist of all you wake up everymorning to go to work and you cant even indulge yourself
i dont care what people say about me , its me what they see is what they get.
what i noticed is that amakhala kuti akukusilira , they want to be you but they cant be
so all the women that drink and smoke their own money , you the gal!!!! be produ of yourself cos you are being tru to yourself
Life is too short to care about what people think man
make yourself happy
*Kiss*
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SUN GODDE'SS (The Earth Mother , Queen of Africa and Warrior Activist and Conqueror Ancestral Spirit and Revolutionary Mayibuye!)
I have never felt this much better when it comes to this issue!
At least now I will be more confident that there are lots outa there!
I am telling you this thing surrounding girl drinkers & smokers can be disturbing hee. Thanx for storing more confidence in me – especially here in Jozi people never seem to mind their own business. I am slowly getting to hook myself in one of circles of the sistas I mentioned earlier – they are untouchable when it comes to their drink and takes there stance firmly!
To all the girlfriends out there who feels like I used to I say – we live once and make the best out of life in your own ways!!!!
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"Give me a woman who loves beer and I'll conquer the world"... Kaiser Wilhelm