just visited one of the discussion forums online and i came across a topic by some african man who really sounded pissed off because alot of African women in diaspora dont say the truth,some of them are widows whose husbands bodies are still warm in the grave and yet they behave as if everything is fine.some of them their husbands are still on death bed in hospitals they just did a runner to start a new life.
being a concerned brother i just want to advise my friends out there not to just catch the fast train.you will fall in a mine field.
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all i have is my word,and i dont break it for nobody.
I have always wished this forum maintains topical issues such as this one : a realistic topic that frustrates and appetises the mind into seeking for the truth.This topic under discussion does not actually welcome voices based on minds eye rather from what is before us .Humanity and AIDS*AIDS*AIDS*AIDS and HIV. I know the stakes for most lovely female members to misrepresent what this topic is all about are so imminent and high because unfortunately the other part has never been told : what about men who desert their women in their death-bed for young girls in the streets? I believe AIDS and HIV is about us both, males and females. Everybody is a devil in himself , so lets say a word as feelings from what we see seek to reveal.
same thing as african men in diaspora,they will never tell their counter part truth about their health status.i guess its an african thing.i stand be collected.
We shoudl also consider then, how these people got married /together in the first place... Maybe there spouses were running around and they just stayed with them for security... maybe the husbands were abusive... its easy to say look at the women but we cant do that without looking at the marriage as well.... some men also runs around whilst their wives are on the death bed and raising their children.... lets look at that befofre we blame the women...