I remember my first love I did everything to please him.  I knew at some point that he didnt love me at all, but i loved him so much that i sacrifised alot of things.  He used to hit me for anything that went wrong in his life.  Even my family stoped talking to me about it because they knew that i would go right back to him.  I had to learn to Love myself and put him in prayer until one day i decided to leave him and I never went back.

He took advantage of me cuz i wouldnt stand up for myself.  Its pretty crazy how far pple can go just to hold on to relationships.  The thing that we dont understand is that we are so special and deserve nothing but the best in life.  If u seek the best u will get the best.  Love is about loving yourself first before u learn to love someone else. 

Another thing that confuses pple in a relationship is that they let themselves go too far before leting their partner know exactly what they want in life.  Communication is important in a relationship that way u be able to compromise with your mate on things that u dont agree on that things go smoothely in a relationship.  Its so sad these days when u see a couple that has been together for so long but dont even know the plans of their partners.  They dont even know where this person is from or how there past was like and u just quick to say thats ma man or ma woman.  Before u know it ur so deeply inlove with the person and when something horrible happens u dont even know how to get out. 

Its important to analyze the person you think ur going to give your time to.  I will alwayz say this as long as I live make sure that ur relationship with God is great.  Make sure u pray for your relationships alwayz put God first and he will direct your path