i just want to share this with alot of brothas out there.do you think there is more to sex than simple technical proficiency?are the DON JUANS happy?i mean those guys who sleep with different women every day.the masters of one night stands.
if a man sleep with different women does it suggest that he had never experienced anything that made him want a woman for a second night,or a whole succession of nights?
these men who do incredible physical things with women,do they get satisfaction from the sex they get ,or just a feeling of conquest?or just an ego booster.
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quote: Originally posted by: kesso "You're not making sense. Learn to articulate your question i.e. Get straight to the point!"
my friend you do have a problem,am articulate and straight to the point,thats why i keep saying your views are so pre school,you lack understanding.it also shows that you dont know who the don juan is,and you tell people that you read books.you just want me to keep refering you to good writers.oh keeso.i believe you can do better than that.
you told Ayatollah that he has delusions of grandeur,when its you who pretend to be someone you are not.you can never make any contribution on sex without talking politics,because thats the area you know better if you really do.so when you have nothing to say on something you try hard to divert the whole thing to bickering because its based on a non-issue.
do you know that your lack of intelligency wreck havoc other peoples interests to join a debate.and you vocabulary is the same it only shows you memorise stuff and bring them on the forum.you think people dont see that.join a debate dont destroy a debate neuter.
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YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT DON JUAN MEANS, SO DON'T EVEN USE WORDS THAT ARE TOO BIG FOR YOU. FROM YOUR POSTS I CAN TELL THAT YOU ARE YOUNG, NAIVE AND HOT-HEADED. NOT TO MENTION QUITE IGNORANT.
I WON'T EVEN BOTHER TO EXPLAIN MY DELUSIONS OR GRANDEUR STATEMENT. I MIGHT BE TOO HARD ON YOU AS YOUR PROBLEM COULD BE THAT YOU JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND ENGLISH VER WELL AND I DON'T THINK THAT'S A BAD THING. THERE ARE SO MANY UNFORTUNATE WRONG USES OF GRAMMAR AND TENSES AND I CAN SEE THROUGH YOU LIKE CRYSTAL (TRYING TO FIT IN WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE ABOVE YOU). WELL, I'M SORRY IF I MAKE YOU FEEL LITTLE BY MY EXTENSIVE EDUCATIONAL ACHEIVEMENTS AND ENCYCLOPEDIC KNOWLEDGE OF THE WORLD, BUT I WORKED VERY HARD AT SCHOOL AND READ A LOT OF BOOKS. MAYBE YOU SHOULD TOO AND YOU MIGHT NOT FEEL SO INFERIOR AROUND ME.
I HIT WHERE IT HURTS MAN,THIS IS WHAT I MEANT WHEN I SAID YOU TURN TO BICKERING WHEN YOU FEEL LEFT OUT ON A DEBATE.YOU JUST TRY TO SPOIL THE FUN MAN.YES AM YOUNG THATS RIGHT AND INTELLECTUALLY ABOVE YOU.AM THE NEO OF THIS FORUM MATRIX.WHAT ABOUT THAT.
AM THE ONE WHO BROUGHT UP THE DON JUAN ISSUE.BECAUSE AM THE SENSUOUS MAN.I JUST WANTED THE VIEWS OF THOSE SANE ENOUGH NOT YOU MISTER NEUTER.THE SAME WAY WE FOUND OUT THAT YOU NEVER READ KAHLIL GIBRAN ALTHOUGH YOU PRETENDED TO KNOW WHO HE WAS.IS THE SAME WAY I JUST FOUND OUT YOU DONT KNOW MUCH AS YOU PRESENT YOURSELF.
PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM ARE NOT FOOLS MAN.YOU COPY FROM ME KEESO,I JUST TOLD YOU THAT YOU WRONGFULLY APPLY YOUR GRAMMAR AND YOU HIT IT BACK AT ME I LAUGH AT YOU MAN,YOU USE THE SAME WORDS ON ALL YOUR POSTINGS THATS A LOAD OF GARBAGE MAN,TRY TO CHANGE,WRITING IS REWRITING OK.
BE YOUR OWN MAN,NOT A COPYCAT.YOUR VOCABULARY IS A MISH-MASH OF NGWAZI,GAME,PANTHER,AND AYATS,YOU THINK I DONT SEE THAT,WHERE DID YOU GO TO UNIVERSITY MAN?DONT DESTROY MY POSTINGS ANYMORE WITH YOUR TRASH,YOU ARE STILL IN THE INCUBATOR BE PATIENT YOUR TIME WILL COME.RIGHT NOW WE ARE NOT ON THE SAME WAVELENGTH.YOU AINT EVEN STARTED BABY STEPS.
DO I MAKE MYSELF CLEAR.DONT MAKE ME HOLD YOUR HAND AM NOT YOUR FATHER MAN.
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THE GOOD THING ABOUT ME IS THAT AM NOT A HATER.BUT I DO KNOW WHO THE HATER IS.
YOU KNOW WHAT KEESO I MAY SOUND INSULTING,BUT ITS BECAUSE YOU MADE SEVERAL VERY STUPID STATEMENTS,SO STUPID THAT YOU PROVOKED MY CURIOSITY THATS WHY I SAID ALL WHAT I SAID,YOUR FIXATION ON ARGUEMENTS SPEAKS VOLUMES ABOUT YOU.
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN DONT YOU?STOP IRRITATING PEOPLE WITH YOUR BLUFFS.
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I NEVER STARTED GAME. HE CALLLED ME A FAGGOT AND A LOT OF OTHER THINGS THAT WERE HURTFUL TO SAY THE LEAST. OUT OF EVERYONE IN THIS FORUM I DISAGEE WITH, HE IS THE ONLY ONE THAT TAKES IT PERSONAL. EITHER HE IS REALLY ONE OF MY MATES PLAYING UP BEHIND THIS ANONYMITY, OR HE IS A REPRESSED HOMOSEXUAL... I'M STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHICH...
quote: Originally posted by: kesso "DONT BELIEVE YOU.. GIVE ME A CLUE!"
the problem is...i might disclose where you live..in the uk ofcourse...london...got friends in chafford hundred..i live close to there..you came to my house...made you guys your (yr mother's) country food..
what is wrong with this boy.keeso listen,and listen good.i have made some adjustments in my life and will learn to mix with faggots like you.although it is agaist my principals i will have to live with the fact that for the first time i have faggots in my circle.
the same way i got used to sitting with a white racist blockhead in my lectures is the same way i have to learn to live with you because this right here is where i spend most of my time.
if you have a problem with that then screw you.i rest my case.
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Fellas, if u get a woman off, she will get u off. enough said. It is more then technical proficiancy. but , u should have the thecnical skill to plz a woman in bed- But to tell u the truth - even guys that are a medicore lay , if they love u and the girl knows it and u show it- becomes skilled - its part and parcel (love). But if ur a lousy lay - it can ruin the relationship.
Agreed but too much burden is placed on males too. A whole lot of women are passive when it comes to sex. Maybe it's traditional. Men, and I believe, all men prefare a woman who knows what gets her off sexually and is not afraid or self-conscious about expressing it with her partner.
Women; I don't mean all, tend to hope that their man knows what they like. Well, how are we supposed to read your mind? Since they can't express their needs, they write it off as the man's inadequacies.
As an average men like loose women. Not loose in the "ho" way, but loose in the bedroom. It saves a lot of stress if the woman says what she wants and doesn't want done to her or with her.
quote: Originally posted by: Black Panther "Fellas, if u get a woman off, she will get u off. enough said. It is more then technical proficiancy. but , u should have the thecnical skill to plz a woman in bed- But to tell u the truth - even guys that are a medicore lay , if they love u and the girl knows it and u show it- becomes skilled - its part and parcel (love). But if ur a lousy lay - it can ruin the relationship."
so it doesnt matter if he sleeps around,as long as he is skilled and show you some love.
ok panther,what makes good sex?is it when man and woman have the inclination to explore each other fully and learn to work together for mutual satisfaction.because talking through experience,i need a woman to enrich me then i will dedicate myself to her happiness and fulfillment.without that i will try to find some good sex somewhere.
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no it doesnt really mena that. I guess I missed the questions point. Okay, though, some girls like one night stands. lets not forget that. Some girls just want to be hooked up in bed. I was talking abuot a relationship situation. But if not, the guy then needs to be technical about what hte is doing.
Game,
what if u meet the perfect sex partner and she thinka like y, she wants to wait until u get her off first b4 she pleases u. U both lose out then right? U've got to give a little. and cant wait until she gives first. Belive me, if ur not satisfying ur woman, she will also look elsewhere, but she is less likely to cheat if ur giving her all she needs.
Kesso,
there needs to be some type of equilibrium when it comes to pressure on the sexes. Yes there is a lot of pressure on men to perform well, but there is alot of pressure on women for a whole lot of other things. Most of this pressure though isnt it from men rather then from women? Kesso, if u make a woman feel like she is a Goddess and constatnly ask her what she wants, ask her if she like d it when u blank or blank, she will open up. There is a lot of pressure on women and their bodies/body image. let her know that se is the most beautiful woman out there in ur eyes, and she will be more comfprtable and will take charge in the bedroom. Buy the Kama Sutra for her next birthday or just for the sake of it, go thru it together and pick out what u bothe like , and are comfortable doing, watch Porn together ( I know a lot of my gf wacth it , or have wacthed it with me, and we will talk about it etc... - not in lesbian way- so girls do watch it - Ive been in a room full of guys, twice where that was the video of the gathering , and they thought i may be freaked out by seeing it but i wasnt- the only thing i got across was that if anyone touched me there would be blood spilled, and it was all good.) make ur parnter and active participant , and u will enjoy a healthy and non-passive sex life. Also, talk to her baout what ur doing...okay, since Im beginning to sound like mini Dr. Ruthie, I will stop here.....
do you know that men are born inept sexually,we only know how to please a woman by being with a woman,it could be that the guys you watch porn with dont know how to get to you sexually after watching porn.thats why there is blood spilled when they try to touch you.
i suggest a sexual conversation while watching porn,without that sex could be frustrating,hard work,and idle dreams.sometimes you could be a threat to them sexually because of your tall tales of sexual prowess that seemed beyond their reach.
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quote: Originally posted by: game "panther do you know that men are born inept sexually,we only know how to please a woman by being with a woman,it could be that the guys you watch porn with dont know how to get to you sexually after watching porn.thats why there is blood spilled when they try to touch you. i suggest a sexual conversation while watching porn,without that sex could be frustrating,hard work,and idle dreams.sometimes you could be a threat to them sexually because of your tall tales of sexual prowess that seemed beyond their reach."
Dunno, the guys Ive watched porn with are friends in theri dorm rooms or in someones house, so they r not trying to touch me even if they were thinking about it. Im a bit of a tom boy so used to find myself hangingn out with the 'guys ' a lot. The bf Ive watched it with, did know how to get me off, but thats not why we watched it... its part of 4play, or sometimes, wed wathc porn when we were bored. but must admit, one of my bf once brought a magazine to me and opened it on to an article about anal sex... and I asked him y he wanted me to read this after I read it...I he had nothing to say. That was the last time that came up!
I dont tell tall tales. but Ive never met a guy that was intimidated by the tales, maybe its in how u tell the story, like in conversational talking when ur just chilling. cuz itts a discussion.
I did a dissertaion on pornography so don't get me started on it. Well, being a fan of all kinds of sexual activity. My partner thinks I'm a perv and oversexed. I think I'm just curious...
The application of media effects theory to pornography. Basically trying to argue that the feminists and right-wing religious zealots are wrong that porn has a negative effect on the individual and society. So I got to do a lot of very interesting research and had access to stuff that is banned almost everywhere.
Interesting point of view - we always here the negatives of porn from those groups, but never the positive.. . It like they think sex is bad...but anyways, I guess that is a whole other topic all together... thanks