Damage of magnitude proportions!

TJ · Member

Damage of magnitude proportions!

bnk444 · Veteran Member

Yes i concur with you much as we would like to inform our fellow members on this site i believe we have an obligation to investigate our stories properly before coming up with condemnations as what happened to the rudo more was talked about her and when i saw her i discredited the whole story that was going around.We should bring in issues that one knows has evidence or else we find ourselves pants down in broad day light .I should not be misquoted thinking that i agree with such behaviour where you see men of GOD preying on vulnerable members of their congregation but the fact should remain lets get our facts correct irrespective of who is involved.

kesso · Senior Member

TJ COULDN'T BE MORE RIGHT.

THERE IS THIS TABLOID MENTALITY OF FINGER POINTING, MALICE THAT IS EVERYWHERE IN THE MALAWI COMMUNITY.

NO ONE CONGRATULATED ME WHEN I GOT A GREAT JOB OR FINISHED MY DEGREE BUT WAIT TILL THEY HEAR I HAD AN AFFAIR WITH SO & SO...

ree · Newbie

When I came here my mother told me, stay away from Malawians. Go there and do you and the end of the day come back home to me. The reason she told was because she did not want to here any gossip about me from some strangers as it goes on now for most people. And that is what I will continue to do. It is a shame that malawians take pleasure in jisting about others, When someone falls it appears to be a field day for malawians, which is sad.

But one thing I have realised that it is the people who have an inferiority complex that are the leaders of this jisting and it makes sense. People will always remember anotehr preson's worse to bring out the best in them. My my.. why is so much harder to lift eachother up than to break us apart? When some one states their opinion some people want to breathe threats? Why? MAKES ME WONDER,

Rudo is a goodperson, It was not my business which guy Maga was sleeping with,and Apostle Ndovie-let's just pray that These stories don't resurface. The thing is whatever sin a man of God is guilty of I am not one to judge. The bible says "everyone will workout his own salvation with fear and trembling" (empasis on the word OWN) . I have no business working out His. And I don't care How much of a sinner you are but if God has a placed a gift or ministry on the inside of you He will use regardless of what you do. That is why the Bible says "the gifts of God are not unto repentence". And Paul in the Bible talks about "After preaching all these people to christ, I myself should not become a cast away". It also states that "On our most righteous day we are as filfthy rugs before the Lord".

So it is not our business but just to remind ourselves that I WILL TOUCH NOT THE ANNOINTING OF THE LORD, AND DO HIS PROPHET NO HARM , Lest I find myself in hell. This is not only for apostle Ndovie but every person whom we spend our time gossiping about, After all they are also "fearfully and wonderfully by God".

Lady B · Senior Member

Just out of interest what is the fascination with the Mkukuphas?

excuse me !! but am i missing something , who said anything about Mkukupha's here ,
and what makes you think that they are the ones we are talking about , patchulidwa dzina la munthu apa
dont assume sweets , in case you didnt know assumption is the mother of all **** ups !!!

How Big Is malawi ??? thats a silly question ??

Ana 4 where we you , you seem to know who you are attacking honey are you attacking the first one of the babes mothes if yes , dont forget they are 2 so which one are you talking about ?
you seem to know these people plus the mothers of these kids from the first one , nde tanenatu , cos now we lost

you personally seem know all these people , so we listening

Does Nottigham only have 1 29 yr old dude with kids , question 4 you
how big is nottigham and how big is MW

what shall be shalll be
'Kiss'

Ngwazi · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: TJ
" Just out of interest what is the fascination with the Mkukuphas? Asiyeni.

TJ,

just to correct your thinking a bit especially on the earlier issue that involved Rudo,it was not about her,it was about the Apostle as a man of God.If you go back to the original posting from game,he directed his questions to the Apostle and not Rudo,she just happened to be the caught in the crossfire

Ree,

You have said-"So it is not our business but just to remind ourselves that I WILL TOUCH NOT THE ANNOINTING OF THE LORD, AND DO HIS PROPHET NO HARM"

All I can say to you is that we are tired of being reminded about "not touching the annointed",I am sure that your"annointed"was given a chance to explain his not so "apostolic" behaviour by a lot of people on the forum and never took that opportunity,instead he or his "agents"leaned on the moderator to have that discussion curtailed by removing the topics and when they came back,when they were put back,they were stale and not interesting any more.

sepusepu · Senior Member

When I came here my mother told me, stay away from Malawians

Ree

May be you are not listening to your mother coz this is a malawian forum or you feel that you have the right to be heard. I totaly disagree with your statement because in every society they a snitches and they are people that will face you head on and ask you a question. I think if you read the topics without implying things then you wouldnt be writting this kind of stuff.

No man/ woman is an island. They are a lot of malawians that you can help and those that can help you.

sepu sepu.

-- Edited by sepusepu at 08:43, 2005-05-07

money low · Veteran Member

quote:

Originally posted by: ree
"When I came here my mother told me, stay away from Malawians"

people like you make me sick, what are you, who are you. youre a disgrace.i find youre posting to be an insult to all malawians.

it seems to me youve gat something to hide, thats why you stay away from malawians.

let me correct you also on one or two things. for starters nobody has ever said rudo is a bad person( and i still stand by my story about her and the apostle).secondly for the likes of maga, come on..that was sick,dudes like him need to be exposed.

no matter what the likes of you say, when there is a juicy story am gonna spit it,anyway nobody forces you to read any of the postings.if you dont wanna read move on..

money low · Veteran Member

quote:
Originally posted by: kesso
"TJ COULDN'T BE MORE RIGHT. THERE IS THIS TABLOID MENTALITY OF FINGER POINTING, MALICE THAT IS EVERYWHERE IN THE MALAWI COMMUNITY. NO ONE CONGRATULATED ME WHEN I GOT A GREAT JOB OR FINISHED MY DEGREE BUT WAIT TILL THEY HEAR I HAD AN AFFAIR WITH SO & SO..."

has any of this thoughts ever crossed youre mind

may be the reason nobody ever congratulated you when you got youre degree was because youre field of study was wack, may be that great job of youres isnt that great and maybe if you had an affair nobody would even give a toss.

TJ · Member

Lady B

I must make it clear that I do not intend to make this a one to one row with you. But you asked me which mother I was talking about in my posting. My understanding of your warning was that it was not sent jointly by all victims but by you alone. Admittedly I erred when I asked where you were 'four children ago' it should have read 'three children ago.'

Further, that posting was not meant to be a a response to you alone but those that seemed to get a kick from bringing this brother in Notts to rights about his fertility.

Anyways, you were right in warning girls who might find themselves in the situation you are in. However, I believe instead of advising the whole women folk to avoid one guy, a general message like, 'girls abstain' or 'use protection' would have been more effective.

I am also surprised that you want to put all blame on this guy. Ten years ago this guy must have been 19. You must have been around the same age or much younger if general trend is to be considered. This is a very young age to start bringing up children. If I am not mistaken your pregnancy could have been around the time of the major 'Why wait, Edzi toto campaign' that took ground in 1994/95. Why didn't you personally wait.

You have used one of my favourite expressions, assumption is the mother of all major ****ups. Seems to me like you made the biggest assumption of all, that this guy would make a good father to your child and good soul mate to you.

One of your supporters Opong revealed the ID of the guy to be related to Rudo. Hence my plea that the siblings be left alone. See below

RE: Warning !!! to all women out there in england

this guy is a brother to the so called girl who was mentioned in the apostles issue ,he was in the army sometime in malawi at moyale barracks in mzuzu :hope you have a clue:

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opong

Angwazi,

You said Rudo was not the target of the rumour mongering instead just caught in the line of fire.

Please see below, seems like she was the target to me.

ndizoona?

IS IT TRUE,THAT THE GOSPEL SONG BIRD TURNED STRIPPER , IS EXPECTING THE FAMOUS APOSTLES BABY.THIS STORY IS TOO JUICY .PLEASE THOSE IN THE KNOW,FILL US IN, I WILL ALSO FILL YOU IN ON ONE OR TWO THINGS, I HAVE MANAGED TO GATHER FROM "VERY" RELIABLE SOURCES..

-- Edited by money low at 00:12, 2005-04-11

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am a lover not a fighter , lets make love not war..

Ngwazi · Guru

TJ,

as I said,Rudo was caught in the crossfire,she was not the target as far as I am concerned because the topic that was under heavy discussion was titled"Apostle is it true?"and was posted by game.Below is the first paragraph of what game wrote(games posting is what I mentioned remember)

"apostle ndovie

is it true that you have been seeing rudo mkukupa?is it true that you have made her up the duff?do you know that she is engaged or married to one of your followers?and do you know that he thinks the pregnancy is his,will you give me answers because i have been to one of your preachings and you rocked my spirit".

You have quoted moneylow as saying:

IS IT TRUE,THAT THE GOSPEL SONG BIRD TURNED STRIPPER , IS EXPECTING THE FAMOUS APOSTLES BABY.THIS STORY IS TOO JUICY .PLEASE THOSE IN THE KNOW,FILL US IN, I WILL ALSO FILL YOU IN ON ONE OR TWO THINGS, I HAVE MANAGED TO GATHER FROM "VERY" RELIABLE SOURCES..

well,well,as far as I am concerned,at this point this was a normal innocent question,how sure are you that the person moneylow is asking about is Rudo at this point?could it not have been Ethel Kamwendo or any other lady singer from back home?no names were mentioned at this point,take what you want but the identification process was at this point very far,it was left to everyones guess as to who this person could be and even moneylow himself insisted that he had not mentioned any names.The only reason you have come up to this conclusion is because game in his posting was straightforward,he did not beat about the bush(bless him for his courage!)or in the later part of the discussion the name cropped up,nothing else,so TJ,Rudo was not a target but you have just "helped"confirm that indeed the person who was involved with the apostle was her.Thanks

kesso · Senior Member

I take offence to what that irritating moneylow said about me, when I was trying to make a valid point about social conduct. Just goes to illustrate my point.

I'm sure he's a genius and he knows me from form Adam.

Idiot!!!

game · Guru

guys

this is for TJ, its just a question,are you the topic of discussion here?or let me break it down this way are you the distributor of these bastards?no offence.am asking these questions because you seem angry like someone whose dirty dirty pants are being displayed to the public for exhibition.if you are not please my apologies.

TJ · Member

quote:
Originally posted by: game
"guys this is for TJ, its just a question,are you the topic of discussion here? or let me break it down this way are you the distributor of these bastards?no offence. if you are not please my apologies."

Game,

Apology accepted. I am not the father of the innocent children we have dragged into this debate. But then you never know, it has been known kuti odya ndi ena okapakidwa ndi ena chifukwa cha chuma, ma looks etc.

I didn't mean to send an angry post. You sure you know angry? Read other posts on this forum and you will find angry. I was only attempting reason in the midst of very negative postings about people who may not even be members of this forum.

Anyway, I am out of this topic. Play safe.

opong · Newbie

hey i did not mention the name Rudo if anything you are the one who said it if you go back to my posting you wont find any name there and for lady B i did not call you BAR!!! OR ANY NAMES IF ANYTHING i totally agree about what you wrote and people pliz im not the one who said it was edward tembo i read it on the forum too.but its not fair to bring innocent souls in this world and can not support them IT IS REALLY A SHAME and for those who thinks this guy is innocent shame on you too!!! this guy needs to start helping his kids

chado · Newbie

OPONG!!! i THINK YOU'VE GONE TOO FAR.

WHY EXPOSE THE DUDE LIKE THAT.OH MEN YOU HAD TO PUTTHE WHOLE NAME HA!! THATS REALLY BAD SPARE THE GUY.

And am reading your post you seem to be lady b.Your not fooling anybody.

Masipeko · Newbie

wORD UP !!!!!!!!1SEPU SEPU

Masipeko · Newbie

am also surprised that you want to put all blame on this guy. Ten years ago this guy must have been 19. You must have been around the same age or much younger if general trend is to be considered. This is a very young age to start bringing up children. If I am not mistaken your pregnancy could have been around the time of the major 'Why wait, Edzi toto campaign' that took ground in 1994/95. Why didn't you personally wait.

TJ
Actually she was about 15 not 19
i know this couple personally and trust me its not about the guy, the 2 get along just fine .
its more about other things

am thinking something must have happened to really piss her off!!!! it must have occured recently
will keep the forum posted

PeterGriffin · Member

mmmmh! Zalowa kumaina zithuzi kodi, amatelo naga...

AAAh! Kodi madalawo ndi a Edo eti, ok..ndiyetu fanzi imenya 1 + 1..khuwaziwa Alady B olo kapena Aopong..Siakuti ndi munthu monzi..

Masipeko · Newbie

mmmmh! Zalowa kumaina zithuzi kodi, amatelo naga...

AAAh! Kodi madalawo ndi a Edo eti, ok..ndiyetu fanzi imenya 1 + 1..khuwaziwa Alady B olo kapena Aopong..Siakuti ndi munthu monzi..

WISH IT WAS TRUE KOMA LADY B AND OPONG ARE 2 DIFF PEOPLE DUDE
VERY DIFF PEOPLE