Ngwazi,

based on my thinking most people are not true to themselves.I think in life a person should be able to think before he or she  make a choice. Most of these people do not make a whole choice, they want to act as they are men of God but beneath the surface they have a hidden agenda.

If you make a choice of doing something there is always stuff that you have to forgo this is what they call opportunity cost in economics. You cannot have both and then say that you are being true to yourself.

Hidding behind the curtain and acting as a man of God is Moral and spiritual sin.These men are a disgrace to themselves, their families,friends and fellow men of God. On the contrary if they accept their  mistakes and show remorse by extending their apologies they should be forgiven like anybody esle.

sepu sepu

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Originally posted by: kesso
"FELLOWS LETS NOT BE HYPOCRITICAL ABOUT THIS. IT'S NOT LIKE ANY OF YOU HAVE NEVER HAD SEX OUT OF WEDLOCK OR ANYTHING. I PERSONALLY THINK THIS DUDE IS A STUD, I MEAN IF HE CAN GET AWAY WITH USING HIS RELIGION TO DUPE UNSUSPECTING INDIVIDUALS THEN... PROPS TO HIM. IT SURELY HAS RAISED HIS CURIOSITY FACTOR BY 10. HE'S JUST A HORNY LITTLE DEVIL, GIVE HIM A BREAK WILL YA!!"

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Kesso,

I am not being hypocritical,lets be honest lots of men do go behind their women,people do cheat on their partners(both sexes inclusive)but dont you think its wrong to take advantage of those that are "weak"in spirit?Dont you think by merely pretending to be on the holier side but acting differently and abusing their positions of trust is akin to "deception?"Forget about the nottingham guy,look at the bigger picture,men of God i.e the apostle doing exactly the opposite of what the scriptures say(sorry I forgot you are an atheist).

kesso

i been following some of your contributions and i have to say you contradict yourself alot worse,stick to the facts and dont bend to the right or left,if you stick to one point of view you give others a chance to relate to that.am not scratching your balls here man,but rather trying to swivel your interectual capability,you're good you do make alot of sense but one minute you are siding with Ngwazi on the same topic the next minute you are crashing his wisdom on the same topic,am not being critical here dont get me wrong but be your own worst critic,try to analyse your comments before printing them.

we know that alot of people are not real when it comes to sticking to one spouse thats humane,but hiding behind the bible thats a hell lot of hypocrisy,i dont see any reason why we have to give props to such uncouth and unreal behaviour,if in malawi there is a culture that condon such type of malpractice then that culture is molebund so dont try to mitigate what these people are doing.


and dont take this as a swing at you.