CONDOMS CONDOMS

Abromovich · Member

CONDOMS CONDOMS

MAILOSI · Newbie

Hell No! Use a condom all the time. Even if it is just a quickie quickie coz you just never know if a person is infected or not. Like myself I am HIV positive but you cannot say that I am infected. I look just pretty and plump. Guys I got infected thru blood transfusion don't think I was sleeping around. By the way why do you ask, are you a player? Che Mailosi on the mic!:confused

Abromovich · Member

No Iam not a playa but when you tend to follow these issues you find that to most people condoms are meant for bitches. It is somehow a little bit sensitive to you especially that you have contracted the disease my question is do we have to use it only with bitches or we dont have to discriminate and say who so ever I **** whether wife or staedy girlfriend I must use it.

blackjew · Newbie

I think you don't have to use a condom to your wife not so Ladies!! but to a girlfriend you can use one.

Blackjew

Abromovich · Member

Are you agreeing that you should use condoms when ****ing prostitutes only? What guarantees do you have that you are safe with you wife? And by the define a prostitute and girlfriend.

Ngwazi · Guru

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Originally posted by: Abromovich
" Are you agreeing that you should use condoms when ****ing prostitutes only? What guarantees do you have that you are safe with you wife? And by the define a prostitute and girlfriend."

Abramo,if you cannot trust your wife when it comes to sex then who can you trust?when you are making love to your wife umapanga opanda nkhawa kuti nditenganji because she is your wife,she is the person you trusted so much that you decided to marry her.so I believe you are very safe with your wife than zabwekabwekazi.outside your marriage if you happen to do anything then phukusi lamoyo sakusungila ndi wina,use the condom at all times and ngati if you are not sure about the person you can even use double as you know nthawi zina imaphulikatu!koma Iam just wondering,che mailosi akuti anatenga kachinyawuka thru blood transfusion,are you serious?be honest,its very rare nowadays to contract HIV thru blood transfusion,Iam not saying it does or cannot happen,no,but we are all malawians pano and we know how bad things are back home and in most hospitals(since 1991)you have to go through blood screening if you are to donate blood ndiye amailosi mukunama,matendawa sinkhani yosekana but encouraging and helping each other whether you were born with it or got it thru sex.Kachinyawuka ndikovuta,kakayamba kuvina mthupi ndipamene umayamba kukumbukila zija unachita ku bash ya ku lilongwe kapena ku BT or ku party ya ku bend/manchester.so please please ladies and gentlemen,chikomekome cha mkuyu mkati muli nyerere,osaputsitsika ndi thako kapena 6 pack,use the condom always.

Jane Doe · Member

If am correct condoms were meant to be a protection from HIV and all the other STD's Right..?? SO are Prostitutes the only people around that carry the virus and other diseases.....? Obviously NOT, so i guess that shld answer your question.
I say if u trust ur girlfriend/boyfriend enough not to use a condom with them, by all means, do so, its your life...
Same as the wife/husband situ, if u dont trust each other that much, then hell, protect yourselves.

game · Guru

brotherman.condoms are not a guarantee that you won't catch monster aids,thats how i see it,maybe other respected members of this forum are well equipped with information on the issue please lets share it.or we discard condoms and go with wambali(kujipereka na mtima wane wonse)big

game · Guru

this is for my brotha che Mailosi,you said you got aids through blood transfusion then you need to sue the ministry of health or ignore my advice if you already got compasation.i salute you for being honest and brave to open up like that mon,you was made of sterner stuff and many sane people on the forum will agree with me.people out there still take monster aids as a dearth sentence it takes alot of courage to come up in the open.

sepusepu · Senior Member

guys most peole tend to use condoms on the first few encounters but after a while we come up with facts like you cannot eat candy while its wrapped.I think this idea of getting rid of the condom should be based on a scientific point(if you go for an HIV test with your partner).Other wise in this case you can face the same risk even if its you girl friend.

Guys take care of your family jewels which in turn will keep the body at large secure from HIV and her comrades.

Dont talk the talk but walk the talk.

sepusepu aka katakwe

Ngwazi · Guru

Originally posted by: game
"this is for my brotha che Mailosi,you said you got aids through blood transfusion then you need to sue the ministry of health or ignore my advice if you already got compasation.i salute you for being honest and brave to open up like that mon,you was made of sterner stuff and many sane people on the forum will agree with me.people out there still take monster aids as a dearth sentence it takes alot of courage to come up in the open."

game,mailosi has not come out in the open,dont cheat yourself,he has merely said that he is HIV positive because he knows no one on this forum knows his real name,its like you and me,we are all using pseudos here,if he is genuine about his status,if he really wants the people on this forum to salute him then he should remove his cover and tell us exactly who he really is and only then can we salute his stance otherwise tizingonamizana pano,people once they are protected by an assumed name can claim anything but once that "protective"name is removed you will be surprised how innocent they try to look,sangazitchule yekha kuti ali ndi HIV,ndimatenda ovuta kwambiri and no one,especially us malawians would want to to be known kuti ali nako kachinyau kameneka even umboni utakhalapo kuti the person you once slept with died of AIDS,amakana anthu nkhani yamatendawa.So,the challenge is on che Mailosi to be brave enough and remove his assumed name,bring himself out in the open with his real name and confirm that he indeed is HIV positive otherwise inenso ndipanga claim kuti I once slept with Tyra Banks nanga mukundiziwa ngati?

sepusepu · Senior Member

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Originally posted by: Ngwazi
"game,mailosi has not come out in the open,dont cheat yourself,he has merely said that he is HIV positive because he knows no one on this forum knows his real name,its like you and me,we are all using pseudos here,if he is genuine about his status,if he really wants the people on this forum to salute him then he should remove his cover and tell us exactly who he really is and only then can we salute his stance otherwise tizingonamizana pano,people once they are protected by an assumed name can claim anything but once that "protective"name is removed you will be surprised how innocent they try to look,sangazitchule yekha kuti ali ndi HIV,ndimatenda ovuta kwambiri and no one,especially us malawians would want to to be known kuti ali nako kachinyau kameneka even umboni utakhalapo kuti the person you once slept with died of AIDS,amakana anthu nkhani yamatendawa.So,the challenge is on che Mailosi to be brave enough and remove his assumed name,bring himself out in the open with his real name and confirm that he indeed is HIV positive otherwise inenso ndipanga claim kuti I once slept with Tyra Banks nanga mukundiziwa ngati?"

Ngwazi,

i assume you know why we dont use our real names.As amatter of fact you are not realy Ngwazi.I think most issues on this forum are sensitive to some weak people but they still got to be said without editing the truth(thats when the cover comes in).If you wanted to know his real identity you should contact him in person.Your tone sounds like you are those people that seclude HIV patients.

I believe that you slept with Tyra Banks poster.Respect to che mailosi.

Dont talk the talk but rather walk the talk.

sepusepu aka katakwe

Ngwazi · Guru

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Originally posted by: sepusepu
" Ngwazi, i assume you know why we dont use our real names.As amatter of fact you are not realy Ngwazi.I think most issues on this forum are sensitive to some weak people but they still got to be said without editing the truth(thats when the cover comes in).If you wanted to know his real identity you should contact him in person.Your tone sounds like you are those people that seclude HIV patients. I believe that you slept with Tyra Banks poster.Respect to che mailosi. Dont talk the talk but rather walk the talk. sepusepu aka katakwe"

Sepusepu,so what are you trying to say?you are either confused or you dont know what I was talking about.As already said(a point I made earlier on)the use of our assumed names gives us the freedom of saying much more than what we would have said had it been that we were using our real names,we can claim to have done anything and get away with it and that is why I said even me I will claim that I slept with Tyra Banks(did you read this part,I said "claim")so which part dont you undestand?dont be emotional,look at issues objectively.

on your point that I sound like one of those that seclude people that are HIV positive,you are wrong,Almost each and every person in malawi has been affected by the disease in one way or another and I am not exceptional,I have had relatives and friends who have died from the disease and thats why I dont like people who make it look like its a simple thing to come here on this forum hiding under our assumed names and make such claims that they are HIV positive,everyone is entitled to some protection and I dont have any doubt whatsoever that names like Ngwazi,game or sepusepu aka katakwe offers such protection but as you have pointed out "dont talk the talk but rather walk the talk",if people can make a claim under an assumed name they should be able to "walk the talk"and confirm that claim under their real names,no need to contact them in private/person when the issue has been brought onto this forum,apikene?

js · Member

this is one of those issues we just have to lie about. you should hear me preach to my friends about using condoms blah blah and then when the time comes for there I go skinny dipping! but the problem with that is I live my life counting the the years I have left on this world because i tell my self i got it but i am too terrified to get tested and confirm it. so my advice would be, be smart use condoms. i work in a hospital and my friends it's not pretty. if you meet a person who gets offended about using one then beware.

-- Edited by js at 19:15, 2005-02-08

MISS THANG · Senior Member

If you don't know whether to use condoms or not, or who to use them on then "why don't you just choke the bishop"!!!!

game · Guru

Ngwazi no offence but you seem like those people who oppose anything because they got a mouth,am not trying to step on your toes mon but if you come up with a topic that depicts
your bravery,i for one will give you props whether you use your real name or not,am a very sane individual who dont just print without forethought,

what i said about che Mailosi was after an esteemed debate in my mental and lodgical falculties. and for the record i still respect your opinion.

Ngwazi · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: game
"Ngwazi no offence but you seem like those people who oppose anything because they got a mouth,am not trying to step on your toes mon but if you come up with a topic that depicts your bravery,i for one will give you props whether you use your real name or not,am a very sane individual who dont just print without forethought, what i said about che Mailosi was after an esteemed debate in my mental and lodgical falculties. and for the record i still respect your opinion."

Respect to you game.I have at no time questioned your mental abilities and I will never do that.But for the record,I dont oppose just anything merely because I have a mouth or for arguments sake,no,we all look at things differently and I am not surprised to see people depicting me in the way they want me to be.But this forum as Ayatollah once put it is not for the weak minded,people have to learn to be honest whether they are using their real names or not.Sepusepu aka Katakwe talked about "walk the talk"(bless him 4 this one)and I am just trying to make sure that mailosi would do that,no disrespect to you or any member of this forum but I will stand by what I said.Dont worry about stepping on my toes,as long as you are not personal I will never be,this is a place where we exchange ideas and agree to agree or agree to disagree,but not in between.

game · Guru

Angwazi i admire your honesty and straight forwardness,i think you are a sharp shooter,i just checked out che mailosi and i might retract my opinions on this guy,he said some Dora woman snitched on him in sa a few weeks ago and now he is saying he is in England,is it me or this negroe is not real?

Abromovich · Member

quote:
Originally posted by: game
"Angwazi i admire your honesty and straight forwardness,i think you are a sharp shooter,i just checked out che mailosi and i might retract my opinions on this guy,he said some Dora woman snitched on him in sa a few weeks ago and now he is saying he is in England,is it me or this negroe is not real?"

I askd Mailosi to tell us in detail what really happened with Sis Dora. But up to now nothing he written and I can have my own conclusion about what happened between the two chifukwa sunganenelatu zomwe zinachitika. But that is a very good observation caus ehe actually said he is in South and has been given 14 days but today he is in UK that is why AMalawife we have to be real if you are in Malawi accept it you will not die if your time is yet there after we are all breathing oxygen and wherever we are our colur of blood is red BE REAL basitu.