Lately seems like we are getting more and more mammas and brothers joining the forum. This is a good development and we it would be nice to see this place grow to the next level. However the biggest sin we have in this place is that most of you just sit phwii and do not contribute at all. You Malawian should learn to express your thoughts and ideas, whether good or bad. Sure we can all learn from each other. I know most of you are introverts because your daddy's used to get ass whooping from either your bad aass parents and those tough primary School teachers. Ladies and gentlemen, it's okey to open your mouth and in this place and let your little voice be heard. I can assure you, sitting phwii will not get you anywhere in life. Relax, change your stupid attitude and do not take freedom for granted. If some of you think I am lying, go check the archives and see how many people are regular contributers.
quote: Originally posted by: Atupele "Iam one of the people that joined this forum months ago and dont contribute. The main reason? It's full of A bad mouthing B etc. But the forum has it good points too so i will try to contribute more from now onwards."
Atupele, I like what you said above. That is the spirit. However I would also like to point out that life on this forum is no different from real life. Most people you meet in life are very superficial and are going to bad mouth you. Most of the people you meet on this forum are some of the very people you are going to meet in real life. However you can not let this hinder you from expressing your views. Look at Ayatollah, he stands for the truth and he is not afraid to express his views regardless of how you are going to perceive them. Ayatollah is not here to make friends or enemies. He is just here to spit out the truth. Go Bussh!!!!
quote: Originally posted by: Ayatollah "Atupele, I like what you said above. That is the spirit. However I would also like to point out that life on this forum is no different from real life. Most people you meet in life are very superficial and are going to bad mouth you. Most of the people you meet on this forum are some of the very people you are going to meet in real life. However you can not let this hinder you from expressing your views. Look at Ayatollah, he stands for the truth and he is not afraid to express his views regardless of how you are going to perceive them. Ayatollah is not here to make friends or enemies. He is just here to spit out the truth. Go Bussh!!!!"
It's been a long time since I stepped on the scene, its all good! I can see that Ayatollah has turned this place into Fellujah and he isn’t taking no casualties at all. Simply said, the man has a good command of the queen's language, and has been intimidating and trampling on his ill-prepared opponents, while at the same time spreading his teachings [truth spitting] like a whirlwind on Malawiana.net! I have to commend the young man for his eloquence and bringing Malawiana website hits to untold highs.
I can deduce that Atupele is a natural loud-mouth in real life and therefore needs to walk the talk. No need to be intimidated on this forum. If good debaters like myself and Ayatollah tear down to pieces your line of argument (like we always do), don’t get discouraged. He who runs lives to fight another day. Whether you agree with Trendy or Ayatollah, you should feel better that you have expressed yourself and you are not necessarily wrong because every argument has many sides and point of views.
Some of us were just born to express ourselves with force!!!!!!!!!! And hear us, you will !!
yeah, it's fun to read the postings from people, but I guess it's not enough that when some people want to write something they will always be like trying to get too much into the bad mouthing. Controversy is cool. it's good to hear wot people say, gives you an open mind to the world, especially here where we don't like know each other personally. I like the fact though that people move on they don't like develop hatred for people who have bad mouthed them here. But from some postings you can tell though that they have been pierced at the heart.
However i think this is a good place, we just need to be more open and be free minded.
there is something that goes like 'if you can't beat them join them' so to those who are up to it, I know Ayatollah for one is, if someone trashes you trash back, it's fun to read that!! I know I like it. But for those who can't take the heat, withdrawing isn't a good option though. Just say something anyway....
I enjoy this forum big time...........
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It's a good thing to see more newbies joining the forum, it actually indicates how popular this forum is gettin and that pple are lovin it!
Abt sittin phwii and not contributing, we gotta remember that pple are different- some would rather jus sit buc and only read wat other pple got to say, whilst others will stand up tall and keep their head up until they r heard and make up their statement !! Thats jus how life is.
Aint against bad mouthin though sometimes it's frustrating coz nkhani zina zimakhala zopusa,but hey... it's all good because everyone has the right to express how they are feeling IT'S A FREE WORLD RIGHT?
Dont take this bad mouthin seriously,most of those pple don't really mean it !!