MALAWIAN GUYS AND GOSSIP

Jade · Newbie

MALAWIAN GUYS AND GOSSIP

plato042002 · Veteran Member

YOU NEED TO REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THAT SITUATION, I KNOW I WILL GET LOTS OF HATE MAIL AFTER THIS, BUT WHATS NEW??, I AM USED TO IT..... FIRST OF ALL, WHY WOULD YOU EVEN DATE A MALAWIAN GUY??? I CAN'T IMAGINE THAT, ONCE YOU START DATING OTHER PEOPLE AND MIXING WITH OTHER PEOPLE, YOU WILL NOT BE BOTHERED BY MALAWIANS, THEY WILL PROBABLY SAY SHIIT IN YOUR FACE AND YOU WILL LAUGH OUT ALOUD. BELIEVE ME, ONCE YOU REMOVE YOURSELF FROM ALL THAT MADNESS, YOU WILL BE A MUCH BETTER PERSON. DATE DIFFERENT GUYS... PLEASE!!!!!

MALAWIAN PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY THE GUYS, LIKE TO PUT PEOPLE DOWN, MOSTLY THEIR WOMEN, BUT YOU GOTTA BE SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT ITS A MIND GAME, THEY WANT YOU TO BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH, OR IF YOU DATE AROUND, THEY MIGHT CALL YOU A BI...., IF YOU ARE LIKE ME, YOU WOULD LOOK THEM IN THE EYE AND SAY, YES I AM A B.....,YES I AM A HOO...., YOUR POINT????? THIS IS A FREE WORLD, YOU DO WHAT PLEASES YOU, AFTER ALL THOSE PEOPLE DON'T PAY YOUR BILLS, DO THEY???? LET THEM TALK......WHO CARES????

AFTER ALL THEY ARE NOT GOOD IN ANYTHING, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT, SO GIRLFRIEND YOU NEED TO TAKE MY ADVICE, YOU WILL EVEN WONDER WHY YOU WERE BOTHERED BY THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE...... TO THOSE THAT WANT TO CURSE ME COZ OF THIS ENTRY, GO AHEAD..... I AM READY TO LAUGH........

Samora · Newbie

hmmm, yes yes, ok.

I really hate to be the first to tell you this but the behavior that you just described applies to more than just Malawian guys. It applies to American guys, Canadian guys, British guys, Sudanese guys, Jamaican guys (or any ethnic group you may think of). If you live in the States, then I'm sure that you've heard American guys brag about sleeping with someone that they didn't sleep with or spreading rumors about an innocent girl. Actually now that I think of it, American guys are probably worse than Malawian guys. You should hear some of the things that some of my friends say about women. It can be pretty disturbing at times. But then again let us not forget that there are some women who do the same things to guys. Don't listen to Plato's advice about not dating Malawian guys. Instead, just keep your eyes open the next time you date and make sure that the person you hook up with is really the right person for you(could be Malawian, Romanian, Pakistani or whatever). Look past the trivial things and don't rule out Malawian guys. There are still many of us out there who still know how to put our women first.

Academic Bouncer · Newbie

Jade, usamvere zimene mbutuma yalemba pamtundapazi ikunena. Prejudice of any sort is ignorance in itself. What matters is finding a good person who is going to make you happy regardless of color of skin, national origin etc. I totally understand and feel your frustration on the issue brought forth. However I think the best route to deal with issues if to face them head on. Do not be afraid to face your haters or those that say things about you. Generalizations are not going to solve the problem. The best thing is to tell it exactly as it is. Do not hide names. Just say, A uje mumauza a uje kuti mwakuti mwakuti. Kodi nkhanizi zikuchokera kuti. Let us make things clear and tell him your side of the story and your piece of mind. You will also have an opportunity to hear his side of the story and reconcile the two versions.I am saying this because sometimes things may have been reported incorrectly to you by another hater just trying to cause a drift between you and the guy in question. Failing to approach things head on, may just cause unnecessary tension between you and this guy in question. I am sure by the end of the day, you would even feel much better by addressing this issue with the person in question and who knows you could still remain friends. Life is too short and there is no need to create enemies.

Akademik Panza

Zee · Member

Apparently, Jade has issues with a particular Malawian guy but instead she has chosen to condemn the whole Malawian male race, just for the sins of this Malawian guy. Like Samora above said you might, as well, conclude that all men are full of lies and gossip because generally all men are the same regardless of race or nation of origin. Most men like to prove their manhood. When they conquer and get what they want, they feel on top of the world. And that is why even when they have beautiful girlfriends or wives, they will still go out there and try to conquer some more, the more the woman resists or shows off the more tempting it gets. Of course there are some women who fall in the same group too. But there also alot of cowards out there who can't conquer and they just resort to telling lies or pure image tarnishing. Anyway, Jade to me this is a subjective thing and what you need to do is to confront this Malawian guy and find out the real truth from him before you start jumping to conclussions which might be wrong. ............may be if you can give us a hint, who this guy is i.e. city, state or how he looks like.

yeah!yeah!yeah............whatever!

wabonza · Newbie

Jade the issue here is not about MALAWIAN guys no .The issue is about LOSERS.Not all men are MEN ,just becoz one can pull down his zip it doesn`t qualify him to be a MAN.
Why should someone nowadays be bragging about sleeping with alady,or even going to the extent of claiming to have bedded her. It clearly shows how cheap and desperate that guy is to get laid.
My advise is get rid of those guys .....they are not even guys but LOSERS they dont deserve a second of daily attention, Get someone nice and full of respect .
Nowadays sex is not an issue pipo are having it every second . SEX is an expression of love and you give it to someone you love and if that someone is going around making you feel cheap then he is not worth yr love then dont give it to him UDZIMUMANA OSADZAMPASATSO .
But dont listern to that LONDON QUEEN or PLATO she has something against Malawians particulary men , if doesn`t like malawian guys then its her choice but she musn`t brainwash OTHERS ,coz with her attitude i dont see her GETTING IT FROM A BROTHER HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Which other pipo is she talking about

SOME MALAWIAN guys are keeping it real but others are failing as well ,so dont generalise .You PLATO ,you are full of cheap talk ,by saying dont bother date MALAWIAN GUYS what does that mean ,some of us are really smart and full of respect and we are GETTING IT FROM SISTERS NOW AND THEN but we dont bragg ABOUT IT .
PLEASE plato CHANGE YR ATTITUDE OR ELSE YOU WONT HAVE SOME

CHEERS

WABONZA

Kwacha · Newbie

You know enough is really enough. This really happens not only in the US but everywhere. You hear what guys talk about shorties.............I slept with her, she's no better, I got what I wanted and can dump her...........all the silly talk.

Hey haters out there, say it but pay back time will come and you'll never get away with it. And shorties, a rose is still a rose. Don't let dem haters bring you down!!

Peacu up