i was happy with the topic jade brought forward and would like to say i liked what you guys commented and the postings were indeed rich and full of eye openings i salute you guys AMALAWI MUMAGANIZa I also wanted to say that real love is gone ? i can only define marriages and relationships nowadays as arrangements where you share lies ,Sex ,disappointments and broken hearts. Let me not discourage you guys but if i were to write a book right now i would finish it in an hour .and i would call IT "WHO IS HAVING WHO " My advice for those who are getting married and are alredy married watch what yr patner is doing.and not saying you have to be possesive no .you will only drive yr patner away .He /she is responsible for yr life so watch out for what he /she is doing with it. If you turn a blind eye to what am saying one day you will regret this is real. CHILUNGAMO CHACHEPA ,CHIKONDI CHATHA, CHONDE SAMALANI NDALAMA IKUYANKHULA KWAMBIRI KUPOSA MAU AMUNTHU .