This happened today back home in Lilongwe to this guy I used to go to school with. He had his wedding today and during the ceremony at the reception hall a lady walked in with a baby and a diaper bag and left them both (baby & bag) on the lap of the bridegroom and stormed out of the hall, leaving everybody in attendance their mouths agape. This ain't no fiction, this really happened today moti there was a little comotion for some couple minutes before the ceremony resumed.
Do you think the girl was wrong to dump the kid at the "claimed-baby-daddy's" lap at his wedding.
Zuze, I would suggest you put some tight security at the boy's wedding next week, you never be too sure what some crazy people can do.
THATS WHAT IS CALLED THE HORIZON OF FEMALE PSYCKOLOGY. FULL OF SOCIO-POLITIC EXPLOSIVE MIX OF ISSUES. BWANJI KUDIKILA NTHAWI YONSEYO KUTI NDIDZAMPOYILITSA AMENE UJA BASI PA CHIMALO CHAKE!? SHAME ON THE BIYA.......!!! AMANGOSEGULA INJINI ETI. I MEAN ITS NOT ALWAYS THAT THE MOTHER OF MY CHILD BECOMES MY WIFE.
IT ACTUALLY DEPENDS ON THE AGREEMENT MADE BETWEEN THE GROOM AND THE EX REGARDING THE BABY. WAS THE LADY AN EX OR WAS IT STILL RUNNING BUT ON THE LOW? APATU HATINAMVE NKHANI YONSE. WE NEED TO HEAR BOTH SIDES OF THE STORY. AM A MAN AND WHENEVER AM ABOUT TO MAKE LOVE THERE ALWAYS HAS TO BE SOME SORT OF PROTECTION ON EITHER ME OR MY PARTNER. SO SINCE IT TAKES TWO , I GUESS FUNSO NDI LOTI; ANAGWIRIZANA CHANI ZA CHILD SUPPORT? FROM THERE I CAN GIVE OUT MY OPINION. MPIRA WA ABAMBO MZIPATALA ZINA NDI ZAULERE!!!! OSAMANGOLOWA CHAMUTU?!!!!! ONSE ALI HEALTHY KOMA?? NANGA MKWATIBWI ANKADWIWA ZA M'MAYI OYAMBAYO?!!! KOMA IZI NDE ZA BOND EEEH!!!
Ok, here's part of the dirt, the bride had no idea 'bout the baby and she let the ceremony go on up to the end and when it was time for the newly married couple to head to their wedding-night-nest at Lingadzi Inn the lady refused and asked for a ride to her old place, saying that, that was the end of their one day fame and she better go back to her old "single" life. Don't know yet if she has filed for either divorce or got the marriage anulled (but it seems she is leaning on this side more).
ODB, 'bout the diaper bag, man, it depends which side of the world you're in to call it that (remember the article on Judge Unyolo's daughter, somebody said that the body was in a bin bag, which if you tell anybody on the side of the world I live in won't understand cos we call them trash bags) and I don't see any point in calling it chikwama cha MATHEWERA, and one more thing man, not all of us are from the BOMA that we call MATEWELA, MATHEWERA. Sorry nephew, I don't speak in capital, bold letters. My tongue is relaxed, so don't try to patronize me in my lingu!!!!!
Hey can someone try to help me understand what this Penjani guy is trying to say cos he dropped this in my yahoo account:
"NAWENSO KUMVAIMVA. YOU MUST HAVE AN EAR TO THE GROUND COZ THATS A VERYATTRACTIVE AND CONTROVERSIAL TOPIC. I DONT KNOW HOW TO DESCRIBE THE SCENARIO, I MEAN I DONT LOOK AT IT FOR THE SAKE OF JUST HAVING FUN BUT LETS SCRUTINIZE WHATS ON THE GROUND WITHIN OUR SOCIETIES. KEEPON BENG SELFLESS AND INTRODUCE MANYMORE TOPICS WORTH A DICUSSION. MY FRIEND FROM GAMBIA LIKES OUR WEBSITE SO MUCH .WHAT IT COULD IMPLY IS THAT MANY MORE NON-MALAWIANS MIGHT BE VISITING THIS SITE AS WELL. MAYBE JUST TO CHECK HOW STUPID WE ARE. KEEP SAFE AND RIDEON"