for those searching for an ideal woman please pay attention.

you aren't looking for just a woman, you know. you are looking for a certain type of woman that turns you on-physically,emotionally or intellectually. So the first thing to do is draw up some sort of mental image of your ideal mate, be realistic,though.just dont conjure up a film goddess or a mythical super virgin on a pedestal like nyenyezi Titha.Try to figure out what sort of a woman would go for you. this calls for some honest and critical evaluation of yourself,some people especially malawian guys me included often think that any woman is the right candidate,that is so wrong.

try to type cast yourself, could you describe yourself as the he-man type or a joke? are you a brain? are you a steady conservative breadwinner?are you the type of man that goes to the golf club, or a banker,maybe an insurer? like myself i know am a poet, so i go for those that love books,poetry, and my chart up line is always poetic so to keep me in line with her,whatever type of a person you are there are plenty of women looking for just that sort.

take for example on this forum,you will find that chichi,who is always religious,she will go for that piety guy on the forum, others go for intellect, and some are suckers for tenderness,some for wit,but watch out because there are too many who go for money and there is a problem that too many poets are selling computers, and they dont often meet the sort of woman who will respond to their chemistry,i have had that kind of life,kissed a few frogs along the way unfortunately i am by nature a more down to earth,inward looking sort.who likes poetry and live by it.so if you feel like you are not finding the right mate,just know that she is the baboon when you are a rightful fit for a starlet.

i know you will say what do i know about what others want,its just me trying to share.