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As much as alot have been said about girl child abuse nithing is said of boy child abuse and interestingly no man is interested,is it normal for man to be abused?Read this quote below:


A Kasungu woman who raped a 14-year-old boy and infected him with Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) two months ago has been acquitted of the charge.
The woman, Jostina Tehu, was freed on Monday by Kasungu Principal Resident Magistrate Jack N’riva because she was found with no case to answer.
“The evidence by the complainant leaves no trace of doubt in my mind that the accused coaxed the complainant into an act of sex by her inducement and that the young man was abused. But be it as it may apply, deplorable and detestable, the law does not apply in this case because it does not provide for rape by a woman of a man,” said N’riva.
According to Kasungu Police spokesperson Andrew Gada, who was present during the trial, the magistrate hinted that the woman could have answered charges of indecent assault, which are provided for in the law for boys under the age of 14. But he said the charge was also not fitting as the boy is not under that age.
“The magistrate noted that there is a gap in the country’s laws that needs to be filled. He said the case has shown that in this modern age, boys, too, are vulnerable and subject to abuse by females and the boys should also be accorded similar protection to that of women and girls,” said Gada.
Tehu raped the boy on June 11 this year after giving him locally-distillate kachasu. She warned the boy against reporting the matter to anyone.
But the boy disclosed the issue later, after discovering that he was discharging pus and blood.


 


 



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...ANd she was aquitted? What an outrage. At least she should have been done for GBH.

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abre les ojos wrote:


...ANd she was aquitted? What an outrage. At least she should have been done for GBH.



 


Whats a GBH ?


Yes man she is scot free every man in town is crying blue murder i couldnt believe it myself when i got it on the radio. Just imagine the registrar hinted the same no case. The girl child gets all the protection and i dare say she doesnt need and the boy child should suffer ? where are we heading into? do we have an abyss in every direction we go left, forward, centre, back? Boys beware.


 


 


 


 


 



-- Edited by bingiza at 14:12, 2006-08-18

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Grievous bodily harm. You're right Abre, there must be SOMETHING they could pin on her. What's the age of consent in Malawi anyway? It can't be 14. Is it? I hope the case is taken to a higher court, this can't survive an appeal. I hope.

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Grievous bodily harm. You're right Abre, there must be SOMETHING they could pin on her. What's the age of consent in Malawi anyway? It can't be 14. Is it? I hope the case is taken to a higher court, this can't survive an appeal. I hope.



You see, she could just about get away with sexual assault. But the disease...?

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Thats malawian age.players were always 14  for 5 years so that they can play under 14 Mayors trophy,remember that?.


For rape to occur  a mman must have an errection.This boy was intoxicated and raped?where did he get the libido?
I think he sued after he found that he got infecte!



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Thats malawian age.players were always 14  for 5 years so that they can play under 14 Mayors trophy,remember that?.


For rape to occur  a mman must have an errection.This boy was intoxicated and raped?where did he get the libido?
I think he sued after he found that he got infecte!





I was waiting for some idiot like the one above to come up with such a stupid statement like erections etc.


That's why its called statutory rape you moron! Even a 6 yr old can have an erection. Doesn't mean its okay to have sex with them?


Where do these ignoramuses come from? That's why I get so frustrated with this forum or the internet in general. Every idiot on earth now can broadcast their ignorance...



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Thats True Abre,


Some morons like the one you have said are the ones who make noise without having knowledge about what they are going to say. I have been following the story and all other morons who have subwoofers in their mouths for making noise about the rights of a girl child are quite. What a shame!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Just imagine, if this little boy is now contaminated with deadly HIV. Those mad people who think a man can not be raped because of erection status should go to hell, How many women have had sex while intoxicated and later report that they have been raped. This is Pure Justice Madness of Malawi which is usually influenced by the Morons like the one Abre has just talked about.



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man! open your eyes wide.

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sibweni wrote:


man! open your eyes wide.



And see men being raped,abused,property graabbed,charged for leaving an unfaithful woman while the whole judiciary protects them including the police?Checck yourself sibweni,what if it was your son.We need to say enough with it and we need to warn all women activists to stop taking sides.


Do we need to avenge? Tell me.



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abre les ojos wrote:



mashoko wrote:



Thats malawian age.players were always 14  for 5 years so that they can play under 14 Mayors trophy,remember that?.


For rape to occur  a mman must have an errection.This boy was intoxicated and raped?where did he get the libido?
I think he sued after he found that he got infecte!





I was waiting for some idiot like the one above to come up with such a stupid statement like erections etc.


That's why its called statutory rape you moron! Even a 6 yr old can have an erection. Doesn't mean its okay to have sex with them?


Where do these ignoramuses come from? That's why I get so frustrated with this forum or the internet in general. Every idiot on earth now can broadcast their ignorance...





Got you.


YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR PROBLEM IS?you are a dwanzzie who will show anger to express a point.Idont belong to that category.Thats why they call me Masoko.Malawi is still a nation of morals.Whatever case comes to our courts its got moral inclination a thing you baby lawyers dont see.I dont think the old lady was right but I ill tell you a real malawian raised child with a well behaved family will not be close to kachaso.Dont even tell me his parents didnt know coz mine would and of course yours would.This kid is a product of degredating families  that helps stupid women to take advantage hence such scenarios.


As for judgement YES IT DIDNT FIT THE CRIME .THE LADY DESERVES A GOOD WHIPPPING.BUT HOW DO WE PUNISH THE PARENTS OF THE  IDIOT WHO WAS DRINKING KACHASO AT 14.This bitch new the mather.......f...k will take  the drug and trust me that was not the first time for this busterd to drink.


 I WILL HAVE YOUR BLOOD RUNNING CLOWN DO. NOT CALL ME IDOT AGAIN .



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if it was my son that woman ndikanamudula ma philikanilo aku mkongo ndithu.



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if it was my son that woman ndikanamudula ma philikanilo aku mkongo ndithu.





Game wayamba kutukwana. Komanso mwanayu pofunika akamuyeze magazi. Nanga matenda amene aja angayende paokha?

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That Mashoko guy is so idiotic i am ashamed to be on this forum with uneducated moronic fools like him.

Get an education and then we can even begin to talk.

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That Mashoko guy is so idiotic i am ashamed to be on this forum with uneducated moronic fools like him. Get an education and then we can even begin to talk.



Get the **** out and let the fools dance.You think being on same side  of the argument will make me educated.I brought you the other  side of the case and you freaked out.I DONT KNOW THE BOY AND THE BITCH ALL I WAS DOING WAS BALANCING THE ARGUMENT.


Now stop calling me names


Education ? Dont even go there !



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Clearly this is a case of a miscarriage of justice. Now although I don't have all the full facts of the case (and neither do you), from the point raised the judge was simply wrong.

There is no balanced argument in a crime that hideaous no matter what you think you are trying to achieve. Besides your point about erections is moronic and hardly stands as a "balanced" point.

About education... Well, you seem to have very little of it...

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abre les ojos wrote:

There is no balanced argument in a crime that hideaous no matter what you think you are trying to achieve. Besides your point about erections is moronic and hardly stands as a "balanced" point.



I totally agree.

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Get the **** out and let the fools dance.You think being on same side  of the argument will make me educated.I brought you the other  side of the case and you freaked out.I DONT KNOW THE BOY AND THE BITCH ALL I WAS DOING WAS BALANCING THE ARGUMENT.





Which fools?


I can only see you dancing.



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abre les ojos wrote:


Clearly this is a case of a miscarriage of justice. Now although I don't have all the full facts of the case (and neither do you), from the point raised the judge was simply wrong. There is no balanced argument in a crime that hideaous no matter what you think you are trying to achieve. Besides your point about erections is moronic and hardly stands as a "balanced" point. About education... Well, you seem to have very little of it...



 What you yhink you are Billy Orielly or something.The time I was doing LAW he was doing  mass communicado.He wasnt **** . I know the larger part of the world got big gaps between western law and one of their origin in other words traditional laws.You are trying to be the wiseman from the west.Its not gonna work in Nyasaland


This judge will look very wrong in passing such judgement in our nation coz what this bitch did was really bad no excuse. Thats why we had mob justice. Western laws dont reall  fit in our cultural world .


On the other hand the boy and his parents behaviour is in question.I thought thats what we were going to do .Looking at the case again and see why this judge did that other than calling me stupd and mo....


bingiza stop being a yes man.I HAVE READ YOUR COMMENTS THEY SHOWED ME THAT YOU ARE A FOLLOWER .MAY BE IAM WRONG.


 



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bingiza stop being a yes man.I HAVE READ YOUR COMMENTS THEY SHOWED ME THAT YOU ARE A FOLLOWER .MAY BE IAM WRONG.

 





Am not a yes man.


I have said it elsewhere before, if a point is in line with my ideas i see no reason why i should not agreewith, whether its Game,Pope,Abre or anybody else. The problem is always when you are on the same side with Abre things take a different turn, i have my own stands surely at one point or another we will agree or disagree.


 



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Pope wrote:



we need to warn all women activists to stop taking sides.

Do we need to avenge? Tell me.






two wrongs dont make no right Pope!!!!



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two wrongs dont make no right Pope!!!!




You are right, but you dont watch someone busy poking your eyes.We have a problem with our activitists,they dont know a boy child is as important as a girl or is it because a boy goes ontop.

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What is happening in Kasungu


Man rapes servant’s daughter


by Olivia Kumwenda, 22 August 2006 - 07:50:54


Police in the central district of Kasungu on Saturday arrested Mtisunge Banda, 43, for allegedly raping his watchman’s 14-year-old daughter.
Kasungu Police spokesperson Andrew Gada said Monday the alleged incident happened on Friday when Banda, a business man, accompanied by a friend went to his warehouse that was guarded by the victim’s father to get some maize.
“The watchman was living with his family at the warehouse and when the two got there, they found the girl [only] as her parents were away. The suspect went inside the warehouse and called the girl who was outside,” explained Gada.
“She obliged and went there thinking that her father’s boss wanted to ask her something but when she got inside the suspect grabbed her, tore her clothes and raped her. She said she tried to call for help but the suspect had put his hand over her mouth,” said the police PRO.
Gada said all this happened while Banda’s friend was outside the warehouse.
“The girl reported the matter to her parents when they got back and they took the matter to police. We arrested the suspect the next day and charged him with rape,” said the police spokesperson.
On Monday, the Kasungu Magistrate’s Court granted Banda bail pending trial, according to Gada.
“He paid K10,000 and was asked to produced a surety of K10,000 (not cash). He was also ordered to report to Kasungu Police every fortnight,” explained Gada.
Banda is from T/A Kalolo in Lilongwe.


 


 



-- Edited by bingiza at 11:20, 2006-08-23

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