That everytime someone is congratulated people have something bad to say, either on this forum or just gossiping around??? usually it's those people that haven't done a thing with their lives that like to say negative things about other people, when one is happy about their own life, they don't get jealous about others, when someone always speak negative about someone, we know they envy that person, otherwise why would they care,   to me, that is as low as one can go, one thing we have to realize is that if people like that person, they will always like them no matter what, either they been married before, divorced, have 25 kids, kills people, whatever you may say about them, it does not matter, truth will always prevail, people that know those people for sure, know the truth......... so at the end of the day, the joke is on you......... it is always the ugliest people that say negative things about other people, serously, next time someone is trying to gossip about someone to you, look at them and let me know if they are good looking, i bet you they are the ugliest and the loosers of the whole bunch, to boost their self esteem they gossip about other people, and the best way to deal with those people is just to ignore them, or do as i do, when someone call you a hule, or a divorcee, or whatever they might call you, say i am one, and......your point???? this is not grade school, it takes an intelligent person to know that these people have issues in their lives and they take them off on other people, either by denying that other people have achieved what they have or by simply spreading false rumours about them, so guys, you don't have to clarify anything,  we know the truth and that is all that matters, do you ever wonder how someone knows so much about someone they don't even really know???? exactly..... these envious people are always talking about people like they know them, next time do something with that energy, maybe we will be congratulating you too on this forum, you can write me hate mail, curse me out, this is plato remember???? i simply do not care, so go ahead, like i have said it before, words are not gonna break me, so bring it on...................adios