In almost every relationship u can guarantee U`ll be faced with the question everybody dreads: `How many people have you slept with before me?`.
Will you partener think you are loose if you admit to 50 or will you come across as inexperienced if you only admit to 2? Is it right not giving an answer at all?
I think they's a big problem with people when it comes to that. Every person have their skeletons and believe me not many are willing to disclose such stats to reasons best known to themselves. But is it necessary to know or you just stick to playing it safe? Nkhani zovutatu izi. Kumangokhala solo ngati ine pano kukwatilana ndi beer basi. No hussles, no fights, no skeletons, no cheating, no beef! Always sealed when you open it.
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"Give me a woman who loves beer and I'll conquer the world"... Kaiser Wilhelm
a new relationship is always 'hot', you wouldn't want to spoil it by revealing that you have banged the whole world! why cant you just say 'i'll tell you later...'
This depends on where you are: for example am in east europe myself but here you acn not ask a question like that coz its totally wrong to think that some ono might have had sex some time ago especially for girls its really impossible except for a prostitute so here if you have a girl forget about sex or else you will be forced to marry her .If you really need sex then you find bitches or go to brothel.
saying am a virgin is a right answer but if a girl answer me like tha in malawi ý would not believe it.
I actually got to be asked a question like that. That is the only question I do not give an honest answer....becuase I do not know the figure. I do not sit and down and start counting....I do not ask either my partner about that.