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Lady B


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Too much tension on these political issues issues , let talk about some love , just to cool down


For those of you who have ever loved or felt very intensely for someone, have you ever exprienced it again that is if you were no longer with the first person you felt for.

Has it ever been the same.. that intensity of feeling or was it something 2nd rate in comparison to the first? Were you able to open yourself up as much as you did the first time or are we, due to hurt unable to open up as much as before?

May love even be compared?
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lady b



what about you,have you ever felt love twice?

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Having never experienced a love greater than your first, you would believe it to be impossible to match. This could be true, but if you were to ever find someone that was better than your first love, it would of course top the last.

The answer to youe Q is yes . All that is needed to top the last lover, is a better lover.

It's as easy or as hard as finding a better person you love more.


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from personal experience, i have never felt 'a great love' twice. i was completely smitten about my one true love, and all my subsequent relationships have failed to surpass that love. i think it is possible to feel love twice, but the problem is (and i am completely guilty of this) that if you don't allow yourself to feel that love again, you can never find true love a second time. i definitely know that i need to get rid of the 'he's not the same as .....' attitude, and stop comparing guys with my ex, but its a bad habit that is difficult to get rid of especially when i keep meeting bastards.



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ok i will tell it all...how do you compare love?  i have exes.  one was always willing to bed amdala, one didn't really say yes but she had this habit of buying presents and i liked her, one told me she loved me but i had to threaten her kuti kachibwenziko kangotha before i could 'know' her- no sex b4 marriage akuti, (mipingoyi!), then this other girl, was good, loving and all goodies but she had some mean attitude, the other girl... maybe i should pause kaye eti...


my experience has taught me kuti love is now, what you do with your partner at that time, dont say this one did that and that bought this, pple are not the same.  you have a love now then have a grand time coz once gone its gone, comparing wont do.  you have amdala now, cool,he doesnt know something or doesnt perform to your liking, tell him or show him the correct method, then lady you will experience love all the time... yeah?  now good luck!



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thanks for the advice amdala - will certainly exercise more patience. i do understand that u can't compare love, but when u begin to see similar traits in people, u can't help but compare it to a similar, but better situation.



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I haven't been lucky enough to really "love" more than once. I hope I do though... It's one of the best things that ever happened to me

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