where are you

Black Panther · Senior Member

where are you

Date: Jun 10, 2005

Maybe it's just a case of people doing what the Romans do when in Rome (what the Malawians do at Malawian parties?). Even so, having a stimulating converstion can be difficult at Malawian parties because of the noise (music, etc). I think you'd make a great conversationalist Black Panther!

game · Guru

panther

you have to be with me at any party,you will want to come home with me.i never run short of things to say,from politics to sex to stuff in the milkyway as in gallaxy.anything jus holla.

NYASALAND · Senior Member

Black Panther wrote:

Okay, on this forum I meet some Mw whom I think I can chill with (male anf female) at a party and have some good conversation - when i go to Mw parties though , i have to really sift through the grain to find guys that are not talking about the size of their d*cks or girls that are not talking about ... well other girls.. my question is... where are u guys, is it that i just dont try harder to find people that I click with at parties or is it that when Mw get together at parties, (dinners, events etc..) no one want to give their opnions about anything except politics for fear of being 'argumentitive' - i mean their is a difference btw being argumentitive and likeing some good discussion and we all go home and r still friends the next day... whats up where r u people at Malawian parties... do we all just put on a Malawian face and shield ourselves?

NKHANI YANZERU NDITHU .ALSO HEAR AT HOME PEOPLE DONT KNOW HOW TO CHAT WITH ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY HAVE DRUNK CERTAIN BEERS . ALL THE TIME PEOPLE WANT FIGHTING WHEN DRUNK , WHY . YOU ARE VERY TRUE NZERU BLACK. THE PROBLEM NUMBER ONE IS THAT YOU MEET WRONG PEOPLE AT THE PARTY. YOU GO TO CHIBUKHU PARTIES WHERE PEOPLE HAVE DRUNK KACHASO KAPENA MOWA WINA WOWAWA ZEDI. PLEASE MISTER, NEXT TIME TRY TO GO TO GOOD AND RESPECTED PLACES SO THAT YOU CAN MEET PEOPLE WITH YOUR INTELLIGENT . KODI IWE UTAPITA KWA GOLOMOTI KUKACHASU UKUGANIZA UNGAKAKAMBEKO ZABWINO .ANTHU NDI ANYAKWAWA OMWE AKAKUKUWA. SO BE SMART YOURSELF .ZIKOMO

Black Panther · Senior Member

Awmwgawd - when I say party, it doesnt necessarily mean the type where you cant hear eachother. People do have dinner parties w/ soft music, or parties w/o dancing that i have been to. Usually the guys are where the beer is and te ladies are staring at eachother & not talking at all b/c they feel the pressure i guess ...

Game - I'd love to talk to you @ a party Game - as long as your talk is legit and ur not just a motor mouth ...

Nyasa - I am female. I go to bars & clubs out here. I know in Malawi there is a stigam abuot girls going to bars - but it aint so over here. You can meet the most intelligent pple at a bar/club - people have dynamic personlities and shouldnt be catogorized in to a box - ie she is a bar girl/party girl/ christian girl/smart/dumb ....etc... I dont think its so much about where u go, for example i wouldnt be trying to go meet a decent Malawian guy at a church frequented by Malawians here b/c most likely they will ba an extreme. I am looking for someone who is balanced - not a vorn -again christian type - and not the local drunk. see ?