ARE THEY WORTH IT

nefetiti · Newbie

ARE THEY WORTH IT

PeterGriffin · Member

Is that why you are a lesbian now?

Date: Jun 3, 2005

I forgot women this narrow minded even existed. Do they still make you?

jones_1 · Veteran Member

peter,

thats exactly wot i wanted to ask nafetiti.!!(no offence girlfriend)

my dear,

i dont think youre right my love,but maybe you just met the wrong guys!and come to think of it,it all depends on wot 'good in bed' means to you!!cos the same guy you thot was lousy,someone would find the him great in bed,unforgettable......!

ive gone out with several malawian guys and i must say they were REALLY good and i had no regrets!

so it really depends on who you meet and wot youre expecting from them!

as for payin the bills and shopping sprees,well, i must say im one independent woman and i dont expect my boyfriend to be doin that for me when i can afford those things myself!

cheating ndiye ili paliponse,whether malawian or not!!!

MISS THANG · Senior Member

Have you ever given it a thought that these NIGERIANS want something from you, Like a malawian passport!

Get a grip gal. It doesn't matter which nationality you date men will always cheat.

jones_1 · Veteran Member

just curious, have you taken out your boyfriend for dinner or just an outing?

how about spoiling him by takin him out for a shopping spree?

abale nthawi zina we shouldnt just be the chics complainin kuti these guys dont do nothing,cos they also deserve to be pampered at times! knahmean????

unless nayenso ndi chidzete kumango funa you should be doin everything!

atleast in a relationship one shouldnt just be on the receiving end!!

zinthu zizikhala 50/50!!!!!

Lady B · Senior Member

Have you ever given it a thought that these NIGERIANS want something from you, Like a malawian passport!

Miss Thang

that is so xenophobic baby.. A Nigerian man is a man

first before he was nigerian! a man with feelings, a man who has can love

just like anyother man from anywhere and NO that does not mean that he is fraudulent or a criminal coz

he's nigerian. l know quite a few hardworking nigerians!! all nigerians are

not criminals and not all whites are

racists..get my drift baby?

*kiss*

game · Guru

nefetiti

malawian men can be crooks but they know how to love,some of us we make sure our women dont complain,and we are so many about 99% so cut the crap and get a reality check.

and who told you that we are not good in bed,for your infomation no man will ever perform well on a log.let alone a sperm chamber for different men.

the problem is you try to differentiate the size of your rampant rabbit to the size of your man's manhood thats just crazy.stay lesbo and lets see if the alligator shaped vibrator can make you pregnant you shallow minded woman.

nefetiti · Newbie

By the way iam a lesbian and seem not to have this man trouble in my head.I feel sorry when i see intelligent women being illtreated by you malawian men and for people like MISS THANG and LADY B,most nigerians have papers or i should say they are citizens whereever you find them.Why would an American or British need a malawian passport for?wake up man!

Lady B · Senior Member

and for people like MISS THANG and LADY B,most nigerians have papers or i should say they are citizens whereever you find them.Why would an American or British need a malawian passport for?wake up man!

Honey I have a feeling you misundestood my reply
i think you shoudl go back to it

*Kiss*

chichi · Senior Member

dont draw conclusion about someones relationship unless ur in it. if ur a lesbian why u even concerned about it? If ur concerned about ur friends or friend talk to her about it, cuz u dont know how our relationships are like. I know i do have a wonderful man and his malawian and he makes me happy so i really dont know what ur talking about. U will alwayz find cheap men every country u go to. The Nigerian men ur talkin about alot of them will do something for u if there getting what they want from u. its not only about papers to them they alwayz have a hidden agenda. I know i do have alot of Nigerian friends.

Men will cheat no matter where their from, Men are cheap no matter where there from, and some men arent just good in bed no matter where they're from. So dont come up in here making asumptions and criticizing........ am why am i even wasting ma time u dont even have a man let me just stop

Black Panther · Senior Member

With that being said , I can say that I sit on the fence about this issue in that I dont totally agree with Nefertiti, but dont think shes talking a lot of BS either. Okay, so in the community I live in (and there a lot of Malawians here) the Malawian guys, pretty much havent advanced/progressed since they got here - by advanced I mean that they are still in the same place they were when they first got here. whether it be, being the Mc Manager, to getting a degree, to getting promoted etc... Advancing is relative, but it seems like people are just living for the moment without imrpoving there own lives. I do understand that its hard for people of color, but thing is the Malawian females on the other hand are a different story. I have seen Malawian women get promotions, graduate, do there masters in mass, and with the guys there are a handful.

I have dated Malawian males, and dont think I get a long with a lot of them, mainly b/c of a difference in attitude But this does not mean that I will NEVER date a Malawian again, or that Malawian guys are all bad or that I have closed my doors to them. Nigerians are people too, and it is kind of presumtious for us to say oh well Nigerians r all bad... we are not perfect ourselves... Nigerians have tha reputation. But I will agree that where ever they go ,they get the papers sorted out real fast -inculding in mother Malawi. Judge people as individuals but be aware of where they are coming from as well. To say Malawians wrnet good in bed - is just silly to me. If u want to improve ur sex life, as a lady, u got to put in some work as well. Sex is not something that is done to you.

Also just b/c some one says something against men, or against Malawian men, doeesnt mean they are lesbian or that it turned them in to one (I know in this case she is a lesbian) but pple have other options if they dont like the way they r being treated, they can date outside of the Malawians - try something different - Jamaicans, Indians, white Americans, Europeans, Zambians what ever. There is a whole sea of men out there ... go Fish !

sepusepu · Senior Member

Nafeti,

you have to learn to treat people as individuals. In every society there are the meek and the culprits but you have to be able to unveil each individual. Learn to be flexible in your thinking it helps.

Do not talk bad about other peoples' bread and butter. A good example will be of myself. I dont drink but i have never been aginst somebody drinking, its what they are and on the other hand its what i am i hang out with Mbiya ng'ambe. If you dont like Malawian men or maybe had a bad experience with one then walk away and let those that have them stick to them.

Your posting is too aggresive that it ends up tarnishing the point that you are trying to present. Check your tone next time maybe you might get your point through.

Black P

On the potential of malawian men, peer pressure catch up with us. We spend a lot of money on material things just coz our boys are doing the same. On the other hand some guys drinking heneiken and dressing to impress is a dream come true. It all depends on what their goals in life are.

NOTE: to all malawian sisters if you are looking for men with potential then thats what you should be looking for not his race or nationality.

sepu sepu

Roca · Member

and who told you that we are not good in bed,for your infomation no man will ever perform well on a log.let alone a sperm chamber for different men. the problem is you try to differentiate the size of your rampant rabbit to the size of your man's manhood thats just crazy.stay lesbo and lets see if the alligator shaped vibrator can make you pregnant you shallow minded woman.

LOL...that's absolutely true.

Roca

Black Panther · Senior Member

Roca wrote:

Game Wrote

see if the alligator shaped vibrator can make you pregnant you shallow minded woman. LOL...that's absolutely true. Roca

not all females want to get pregnant ad have babies ...

davie · Newbie

nefetiti wrote:

Honestly girls,do you really think that malawian guys are worth fighting for?they are nutting bur losers. They will not pay for your bills. They are not good in bed. They wont take you to places not to talk of shopping sprees. They cheat all the time. Deadbeat baby dads. Its about time you realise that the so called NIGERIAN MEN are the best they will do everything for you amuna achi malawi amawatcha macroocks but then wats the point of dating a loser and do you wrong than dating a fraudster who gives you everything and the best s.. u can ever get.

Inu ngati munakulira kumudzi with the understsnding yakuti mwamuna azikupangirani zonse,then you're sick.Akazi ngati inu in the end mudzafa choyima.When a man loves you,dont expect him to do everything for you,stand on your two feet and show the world that you can succeed on your own.

My advice is:Fight for Nigerian men,they will pay your bills etc! Koma osadzalira chifukwa chosamva chidamva nkhwangwa iri mmutu. Asiye amuna achi Malawi,iwe yendera yako!

Mleza · Newbie

Kome nde uwasiyedi amuna achimalawiwo iwe yendera yako. How can you say Malawian men are not good in bed. "If u havent furnish your house dont blame the landlord" Vuto ndi iwe. And u know what! fumbi ndiwe mwini. Azimayi enanutu vuto limakhala ndi inu, musanamizire amunawa. Lack of communication btween you and your other half. M'mawuza zomwe m'mafuna inu? Manyazi manyazi!! eeeeh!!! mukhala choncho. Nde amatsadabudza molakwikatu. Learn to communicate with them.

PeterGriffin · Member

davie wrote:

Asiye amuna achi Malawi,iwe yendera yako!

LOL!!

MISS THANG · Senior Member

Lady B

I've got lot's of Nigerian friends who have British/American passports but they are always askin me if i can hook them up with a Malawian passport. I wonder why?

the truth is you can get away with a lot by having a Malawina passport.

But as i said men are men and they will always cheat or do whatever but then again there a lot of men out there who are good although i've yet to come across them.

Lady B · Senior Member

Miss Thang

I hear you , but all am saying is that where you find the bad people is also where you get the good people

not all nigerians are Bad !!!!!!!

*kiss*

amdala · Senior Member

now thats unfortunate. no harm meant, but would tell me about your life style? if malawian men are not good in bed but nigerians, then you should have an idea about zambians, swazis, gambians... hey now thats experience! if you were back home i would have advised you to visit Macro. i am happy for though that you have finally found your man, kunja kwaopsya. now be careful about those guys, most of them have multiple names...why?

before i go, think again.

amoyo · Newbie

Lady B am with you, i have a Nigerian boyfriend but men he really treats me like an angel.With ma past Malawian relationships i thought i was loved and spoiled mmh! mmh! i was fooled, this guy is really making ma world.

I heard alot about them Nigerians before i met this one, if all Nigerians are good like this one i don't blame you for saying how useless Malawian guys are.