ONCE AGAIN

kesso · Senior Member

ONCE AGAIN

sugarplum · Member

Don't worry about it bro,you know what you are so don't waste your time trying to prove you are straight,i'm sure you are. Some of those guys are just slim shady wannabees (like all you gay m**fers** suck my dick)haven't we heard that from eminem before?? Why would a straght guy want his dick sucked by a gay man,maybe they are the ones that are gay!!! Don't let them upset you because you are a fair human being,keep your head up!!!

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Lady B · Senior Member

Kesso Honey

Poeple hate what they dont know and what they dont understand , so dont worry honey if you find people making a joke at the expense of gay people or maligning them in any way, all they should keep in mind is that they may, in fact, be speaking to a gay person or to the friend or relative of a gay person. It’s not some faceless, nameless group they’re talking about but people they care about and possibly their own acquaintances and loved ones as well.

'kiss'

kesso · Senior Member

GLAD TO KNOW THAT MALAWIAN WOMEN ARE A LOT MORE FORWARD-THINKING AND POSITIVE THAN THE MEN ARE. I DON'T WANT TO SPECULATE WHY, BUT IT IS SELF-EVIDENT.

ANYWAY, SOMETHING ABOUT YOUNG MALES (AND THIS IS EVERYWHERE) BELIEVE THAT HOMOSEXUALITY THREATENS YOUR MALENESS. IT IS A CONFIDENCE THING. WHEN YOU GET OLDER AND MORE MATURE SEXUALLY YOU ARE MOST LIKELY TO FEEL LESS THREATENED BY IT.

MY POINT IS THAT MOST HOMOPHOBIA IS A JUVENILE THING. HENCE IT'S PREVALENCE IN "POP" CULTURE (HIP-HOP) TO BE EXACT.

UNFORTUNATELY, A LOT OF YOUNG BLACK MALES IDENTIFY WITH THIS CULTURE AS A "FIT IN" THING. THAT'S WHERE I THINK HIP-HOP HAS A NEGATIVE EFFECT OF BLACK PEOPLE.

I USED TO THINK THAT RAP WAS AN INDICATION OF THE PROBLEMS OF THE BLACK COMMUNITIES. NOT ANYMORE I DON'T. IT IS NOW PART OF THE PROBLEM. IT'S ATTITUDE TO LIFE, WORK AND HUMAN RELATIONS IS COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE TO SAY THE LEAST. AND HOMOPHOBIA IS PART OF THIS...SADLY...

sugarplum · Member

Men who are homophobic are on a huge ego trip i tell you!!! They feel like if they except gay people it will affect their macho image. tell you what,as a woman their is nothing i find sexier than a sensitive confident man who knows that being straight is not keeping away from people who are different. No woman wants to waste her time nursing a mans ego!!!Excepting gay people does not mean you will have to turn gay and sleep with them,its just respecting them as you would anyone else.There are poeple with worse sexual preferences than homosexuals like paedophiles,those are the muther ****ers you should generate your hatred to please!!!

money low · Veteran Member

TALK ABOUT HATE MAIL, THIS IS WHAT I FOUND IN MY MAIL BOX JUST FOR SIMPLE TRYIN TO EXPRESS MY POINT OF VIEW.

From: kesso Subject:

AM GAY AND PROUD TO BE.I KNOW WHO YOU ARE. YOU HOMOSEXUAL PEDOPHILE. I KNOW YOUR DADDY DICK FEEDS YOU AND YOUR MOTHER TAKES IT UP THE ASS...

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1st Warning

-JRC-

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-- Edited by money low at 13:12, 2005-06-01

-- Edited by JRC at 18:14, 2005-06-01

Lady B · Senior Member

SugarPlum
I could not have said it better my dear , When people begin to realize that apart from who a gay person's love interest is, that they are basically the same as any other human being, then a valuable lesson will have been learned.

'Kiss'

kesso · Senior Member

Of course as a reply to the horrible one YOU sent me first. Which I would not be low enough to paste here.

You're not the only one who can abuse you know. I have a lot more in store. Plenty more where that came from mate!!!

money low · Veteran Member

woooooooooooooooooo!

am scared!

yeah right.

for starters i int youre mate, never have and never will.the thing i hate about you lot( ma homo)when somebody trys to express a view thats different from youres, you get all agressive. throwin all sorts of insult and abusive language(youre mama, this, youre mama that). and yet you claim to be open minded.

i have had enough of gettin abuse from youre kind. so if you wanna bring it on bring it on. i aint scare.am neva scared

-- Edited by money low at 13:30, 2005-06-01

kesso · Senior Member

KODI ACHIMWENE

NOBODY'S THREATENING YOU. DON'T BE PARANOID. I KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE AND I WOULD HAVE INSULTED YOU DIRECTLY, BUT YOU'RE NOT WORTH IT.

ON A LIGHTER NOTE. IT'S NOT ABOUT EXPRESSING OPINIONS, IT'S ABOUT "LIVE AND LET LIVE".

IF A WHITE MAN CALLED YOU A GOOD FOR NOTHING NIGGER. YOU WON'T SAY, "IT'S OK FO HIM TO EXPRESS HIS OPINIONS" YOU'LL FIND IT OFFENSIVE. SAME AS I FIND HOMOPHIBIC LANGUAGE OFFENSIVE.

IT'S GREAT THAT IN THIS COUNTRY (UK) YOUR KIND ARE A SHRINKING MINORITY. CHOSE TO BELIEVE ANYTHING YOU WANT, NO ONE'S STOPPING YOU. JUST DONT; FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, INSULT PEOPLE. AT LEAST DO IT ON A PRIVATE MESSAGE; THAT WAY I CAN CALL YOU ANYTHING I WANT.

game · Guru

keeso

this is revolting and disgusting,so all that cry you are just a serial gay man trying to force your way in the society of normal people by condemning them.i had a feeling that you is gay but i never thought you would stoop so low to the point of sending hate mail.dude you are so disgusting if this is true.

even your posting above you are crying like a cheap tart wanting a hug.no wonder you dont believe in God man,eeew.money low thanks homie for letting the cat out we was never going to know the true keeso,i was beginning to like dude,Asant came on the forum as a straight up lesbo she didnt lie jack,but you,if you knew that being gay is good why are you embarassed with it.why not come out in the open and let people accept you for who you are.

so is that the reason you brought up the PERSONA NON GRATA on money low,is that the reason you attacked anyone with different opinions to yours.is that the reason for your heterophobic remarks you make on people.i thought you was just the voice for hommos not one of them.

Now i know why you started this topic man,you are so guilty for sending this hate mail to moneylow so you wanted some sympathy.get some advice from mailosi,she is gay and people treat her the same way as anyone else because she never lied a tick.so what else are you hiding apart from your anonymous id,speak now or forever stick a dong in your mouth.

-- Edited by game at 13:54, 2005-06-01

kesso · Senior Member

LOOK GAME

I THOUGHT YOU AND I AGREED TO DISAGEE LONG AGO. ALL I HAD TO DO WAS OPEN UP A FORUM ABOUT HOMOPHOBIA AND YOU INSULT ME CALL ME NAMES AND STUFF.

AS FOR MONEY LOW, HE SENT ME THE MAIL FIRST & I RESPONDED BY BEING AS LOW AS HE WAS. MY MISTAKE, YES BUT I HATE BEING INSULTED AND I KNOW YOU DO TOO. SO I WON'T REVERT TO OUR PAST NAME-CALLING AND ABUSE EVEN 'THOUGH I'M TEMPTED TO.

YOU READ ME WRONGLY. LIKE I SAID EARLIER; NOW PAY ATTENTION. I FIND CHRISTIANITY OFFENSIVE, PROFANE AND SPITEFULLY IGNORANT. I DON'T GO AROUND CALLING CHRISTIANS THAT BECAUSE I BELIEVE THEY ARE HUMANS AND WORTHY OF THEIR BELIEFS. IT'S CHRISTIANITY I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH, NOT CHRISTIANS. SO I DON'T HATE THEM.

NOW LETS NOT CALL EACH OTHER NAMES THAT WE WILL REGRET LATER AND LET THIS SLIDE. IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING OTHER THAN CHARACTER ASSASINATION TO SUBMIT TO THIS THREAD, PLEASE DO SO PRIVATELY.

AND PLEASE THIS TABLOIDESQUE JIBBERISH IS UNDERMINING MY INTELLIGENCE AND CONTRUCTIVE OUTPUT....

Lady B · Senior Member

Game
inetu ndinkakuona ngati wanzeru and gave you so much respect insipte the fact that i dontk know you , komano they way you have attacked Kesso has its kinda disturbing
Gays are people too. I happen to know some gay men that can beat the living daylights out of some straight men that push them too far. Talk about cry babies.

Do you know why you are straight? Because you were told to be? The bible says so? I'm straight and have no idea why I am attracted women. It's genetic, I guess? When you can club down that person that can explain attraction then roll out the Nobel Peace Prize. Until then quit making bad "rationales" that are baseless.

Gays happen to be very self sufficient and pretty much on the wealthy end of things. A lot of the things that you enjoy in everyday life are the inventions of gays. It's not that they need money, they need to be acknowledged as human beings like yourself. You are going to rot from the inside out if you keep up this hatred. No one is really asking you to adopt a gay or run up and hug everyone that you see. But you need to see them as people. Companionship is the #1 priority with gays, not sex. But I see many straight relationships based on the reverse. And don't load down that gays are promiscuous. I can point out many straights that are worse. Men in general tend to be so horny it's not even funny. That's a male trait, not a gay trait. If this has to do with gay marriage then you have nothing to stand on. How many straights do you know that marry one day and get the darn thing annulled the next? . People that ABUSE the sanctity of marriage. take the people that are SERIOUS. If you have a problem with that then you live with it. I have a problem with people that use marriage as a tool for "sudden love" and then divorce within a year while denying other people to complete their lives. Now if you can't see the sickeness in people that USE marriage as a testing ground if they will get along or not, then you are not fully connected to yourself or the world.

Why is it okay to hate gay people, still? Does it make you feel good inside to have all of that hatred? Or are you just like the rest, using gay people as a scapegoat for all of societies problems

'Kiss'

kesso · Senior Member

YOU COUDN'T HAVE PUT IT MORE INTELLIGENTLY.

I WANT TO APOLOGIZE IF I OFFENDED ANYONE. THESE RANTS TEND TO BRING OUT THE WORST IN PEOPLE.

PREJUDICE IS A VERY DANGEROUS THING. I WORK WITH THE SOCIAL SERVICES DEPARTMENT AND I SEE IT EVERYDAY ALL THE TIME. BE IT ASYLUM SEEKERS, GAYS, BLACKS, CHINESE, KIDS WITH DOWN SYNDROME OR LEARING DISABILITIES. THE ABUSES THEY GO THROUGH JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT "NORMAL". BUT WHAT IS NORMAL?

IN A WORLD OF 6 BILLION PEOPLE,. NOTHING OR NO ONE HAS THE MONOPOLY ON NORMALITY. NO NONE! THIS WORLD IS FOR EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US. NOT JUST CHRISTIANS, MUSLIMS, BUDDHISTS, RICH, POOR, AMERICAN OR IRAQI... WE ALL GOTTA BE HERE. IF YOUR BELIEF SAYS OTHERWISE, THEN YOUR BELIEF IS WRONG. IF YOUR RELIGION SAYS A GROUP OF PEOPLE (WHO HAVE DONE YOU NO HARM) ARE LESS THAN HUMAN, THEN YOUR BELIEF IS WRONG. IF IT FOSTERS PREJUDICE AND HATRED THEN IT SHOULD BE CONDEMNED.

IT'S NO EXCUSE TO SAY, YEAH, BUT IT'S MY CULTURE AND I SHOULD BE FREE TO EXPRESS MY OPINIONS OF HATE AND PREJUDICE. I SAY NO. BY THAT LOGIC THE KKK OR NEO-NAZI WOULD BE WALKING THE STREETS DOING AS THEY PLEASE...

THE TIME TO STOP THIS MADNESS IS NOW!!!

Black Panther · Senior Member

the sad thing is that we are all a bunch of educated people on this forum. People who should know better. I have a feeling that in the issue of gays (not lesbians), u guys would all beat or lynch a guy in a heart beat. That is very disturbing, its like those white christians that go to church on Sundays and are lynching black folks on monday... hmm... interesting world we live in. free your mind and the rest will follow.

game · Guru

keeso

i respect you big time but when moneylow came up with that i felt let down because you like accepted being gay but to me you said you are not gay.which made me to consider all the things that you said to me.

am not going to say anymore on this issue i was out of line didnt mean to insult you like that,and this time i mean it,find it in your heart to forgive me.

as for other people i have offended my apologies,you wont see of game again in anything concerning someones sexuality. i dont want to be the bigger man but just felt guilty for the way i acted.

The Sage · Newbie

That, my dear is the sign of a true man. Not afraid to apologise. Some more of that in society would be a nice thing. Particularly amongst politicians.

chichi · Senior Member

Game that is just great am really proud of u. Lets all just get along and talk about something that will give us wisdom. That is a sign of a real man aint afraid of anything

we can learn from that

ya stay true

Brandy1 · Veteran Member

game wrote:

keeso i respect you big time but when moneylow came up with that i felt let down because you like accepted being gay but to me you said you are not gay.which made me to consider all the things that you said to me. am not going to say anymore on this issue i was out of line didnt mean to insult you like that,and this time i mean it,find it in your heart to forgive me. as for other people i have offended my apologies,you wont see of game again in anything concerning someones sexuality. i dont want to be the bigger man but just felt guilty for the way i acted.

Oooh guys, I feel like crying, that was so sweeeeet Game. So are you guys still going for the skiing/ice skating trip as you suggested in your earlier postings with Kesso? Don't be scared about Kesso being gay, it's the same like what my other ladies said, you honey being a man it don't mean you are attracted to every Jane & Jill. Please post the pics of the trip.

Lady B · Senior Member

Game honey,
Thats the spirit

'Kiss'

Black Panther · Senior Member

U go game.

chado · Newbie

I WONDER WHY SOME OF YOU ACT LIKE YOUR SUPRISED THAT KESSO IS GAY.IN ONE OF HIS POSTINGS HE SAID :ME AND MY PARTNER.......THATS A CREW RIGHT THERE!! NO OFFENCE BUT I THINK THE WAY WE WERE RAISED ITS KINDA HARD TO ACCEPT GAYS IN OUR SOCIETY,WE GROW UP KNOWING THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN.THATS WHY ITS HARD FOR MOST OF US TO ACCEPT IT.BUT HAVING SAID THAT,WE NOW LEAVE IN A DIFFERENT WORLD .SO WE NEED TO BE OPEN MINDED.(TAYENDA TA PHUNZIRA TAWONA A GALU A MICHOMBO)

kESSO QUESTION- ARE YOU BI CAUSE I REMEMBER BACK IN MALAWI YOU USED TO HAVE GIRLFRIENDS.

The Sage · Newbie

I can personally vouch for kesso. He has been my flatmate in the UK for years and I know he is engaged to a woman. So he is definitly not gay. That said, the statement me and my partner doesn't stress anything.

chado · Newbie

The Sage wrote:

I can personally vouch for kesso. He has been my flatmate in the UK for years and I know he is engaged to a woman. So he is definitly not gay. That said, the statement me and my partner doesn't stress anything.

It does,because most gay people refer to one another as partners when they are hitched.If nobody said he was gay, I could have not put 1 +1=4.

So kesso you need to come out and defend yourself.cause when they accused you of being gay ,you didnt respond,that why some of us are jumping into conclusions.

I got nothing against gay people,half of my co workers are gay.

The Sage · Newbie

WHAT DO YOU HAVE AGAINST KESSO ANYWAY. IN ONE OF YOUR POSTS YOU CALL HIM TOWNMONGER AND IT STRUCK ME AS A LITTLE BIT RUDE.

chado · Newbie

Give me a break !!i got nothing against the dude.He was a town monger.maybe you dont understand the meaning of it.