what??? looking for who??? why???

plato042002 · Veteran Member

what??? looking for who??? why???

fufie · Newbie

well thats a very good opinion but u must also remember that we as women look for different things in men and its not just how competent they are sexually but also if they have a good heart, intelligence plays a big role too. i am not saying that all malawian men are intelligent but i can say that there are some who are booksmarts and some are street smarts. so girlfriend i have to say that do not hate on malawian men coz am sure we all have brothers who are malawian and they are doing great with their loved ones, if anything i have a great brother whom i do want to see dating a great malawian girl but if this is the attitude then i bet he is better off with a white chick. by the way i do not date a malawian man, but i have so much respect for them since my pops is one of them, and the reason for not dating them is sorely because i met a good soulmate who just so happens not to be african.

good luck babygirl

Abromovich · Member

quote:
Originally posted by: plato042002
"Tiende Tatu, why are you looking for african men , malawians for that matter, if you waste your time with malawian guys, you will never live your life to the fullest, malawian guys, if not all african guys, are known to be immature, deceitful, and invidious. they will not make your life any better, probably make it worse, my philosophy on relationships has always been very simple and straight forward, if someone makes your life a misery or any worse than it already is, you don't need them, you will be much better by yourself. the good thing about these united states is diversity, there is latino men, african american, carribean men, white men, the list goes on, why would i wanna be stuck with a no good malawian guy??? tell me ten reasons. why?????? i don't understand, i have never been with an african guy myself, let alone malawian, but i have heard quiet plenty about these player wanna be's, the story i have heard is that, they are sexually incompetent...........LOL!!!!!!!!!! so open your mind and allow yourself to explore, life is too short to be confined in that crazy world you are living in, african people can make your life a living hell, only if you let them, you gotta break away and live your life, thats the only way you will ever grow, both mentally and emotionally, so come on, join the club........... you will never go back............... now before i go, i want you all to know that i realize i will get hate mail after this entry, but guess what, WORDS AIN'T GONNA BREAK ME....... SO BRING IT ON!!!!!!! LATER!!!!!!"

Do not mislead your gal. Reading your topic it seems you are a very frustrated woman who seem to be failing to make it in love life. Now you need to respect African Men and Malawians in particular I think you are the kind of gal when they are leaving Malawi dump their boyfriends hoping to get married to a mzungu only to be played and played until chokoma kugwera nkati. Sorry if you got involved with an immature guy but not all guys are immature some of us we are having both huge and small responsibilities that we are able to take care of. Now clarify what is to be immature.

Is using viagra sexually competent? I use raw cassava uncooked and I do it to you will never regret it but sex is sex it depends on how one does it. One can have a small dick and satify you one can have a long long dick and you will never get satisfied so mind you we are very competent. Ask the white female American Peace Corps who have been to Malawi and get ****ed by Malawians they have very unforgetable moments.

-- Edited by Abromovich at 11:35, 2005-02-24

game · Guru

abrimo,that gal is a sell out,thats why malawian guys dont ask her out,

money low · Veteran Member

it seem like,you int getting any sex at all, you need a man in your life.

it takes two to tango, may be its you whose incompetent.

you know what they say right, ugly people say ugly this, i think ur ugly. thats why brothers dont holla at you, now your trying to take out youre frustrations on every malawian dude out here.

you know what if i were you, i would probably hate myself too,

uka yipa ziwa nyimbo

every thing in life my sister isnt all about men you know, i am actually happy that you ve come out, and brought out all youre frustrations, so tha the whole world can know that youre a sexualy frustrated sister,

youre boring,

go find a rope and do as all a big favour

hang ur self.

i think you started the topic just to get some attention.

straightfire · Newbie

plato 042002, your contribution is an embarassment and to be down right honest, pathetic and empty. How can you be so unpatriotic? Are you a product of two Malawian parents or you are Afro American or better still not a product of Malawians?

You talk of Malawian men failing to sexually satisfy women, which women? Dont take your specific case and apply it to everyone. I am sure on this very site there are gals who are ably satisfied with their Malawian hubbies. If you want examples, they can be given but for whose benefit? You, the judgemental ....?

You go ahead to imply that Malawian men are not trustworthy and in general not good lovers. How sad! I wish I could give you names of the many Malawian happy couples. I am sure you are still excited with being in America. You have not yet known how people live/behave. In America, England and Malawi, there are and will always be happy couples and others who are misfits. So again, please, please, do not generalise.

Do not use your bad relationship with Malawian men and think the same is true for everyone. Actually, in everything that goes wrong one needs to learn a lesson. You seem the type that doesnt learn. You failed to pick lessons from your failed relationships with Malawian men and you are now condemning them. Pepani Mayi, moyo siuli choncho. Until you learn not be JUDGEMENTAL, azungu kaya ma American men mukunenawo akusiyaninso. Life is a process not an event. Inu ndigulu loona moyo ngati event. Mukhala choncho anzanu akunjoya ndi aMalawi kapena fellow Africans who truly understand each other's culture and accept each other 100 percent.

"Those who live by the sword die by the sword"

tiyende Tatu · Newbie

Plato, i hear what u saying but i was born from a malawian father and he's been so good to my malawian mother since the day i came into this world. So i know one thing fo sure my malawian brothers can make mistakes just like everybody else, they can be everything but THEY ARE NOT SELL OUTS! am sorry if u've heard so much bad things about them.....i've dated malawian guys all my life, i've had bad and good experiences but i gotta say they're still the best. Them brothas are still fine and everything else, they hold down their own too so don't put em down. i know i wont waste my time if i date one of them again.

so what it is....holla if u heaaar me!

Tiyendeso Tatu Suleman.

Ngwazi · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: plato042002
"be stuck with a no good malawian guy??? tell me ten reasons. why?????? i don't understand, i have never been with an african guy myself, let alone malawian, but i have heard quiet plenty about these player wanna be's, the story i have heard is that, they are sexually incompetent...........LOL!!!!!!!!!!

Plato042002,

All I can say to you mayi is that dont believe everything you hear as you have already indicated that someone told you za nkhani imeneyi.We malawian men are very proud of our sexual prowess but I cant argue that their might be one or two who are sexually incompetent but this is not a problem confined or exclusive to the malawian or african male,it is a problem that can be found across all races even the latinos you are talking about ali nawo awo osachedwa ndipo quicker ngati tambala.its wrong for you or anyone to point a finger of blame to the malawian male.its sad that you have never gone out with an african let alone a malawian male(so you say!) otherwise ukanaikila umboni wa ntchito za chi malawi.are you dead serious kuti sunayendeko ndi mamuna wa ku malawi?munakulira kuti inuyo mayi?

MISS THANG · Senior Member

Plato042002

The only reason you've never gone out with a malawian or African guy is coz they've figured you out and don't want nothing to do with your ugly ass!I would never go out with no one but a Malawian guy or an African guy. Why? Coz these guys understand me and know where i'm coming from. now i know there are some Malawian guys out there who don't know their left from their right but there are also some genuine Malawian guys out there.

These none African guys you claim to go out with only go out with you coz they know that you are easy and cheap or else they might be drug addicts who have never seen you when they aren't high and so don't know what you really look like coz else they'd run in the opp direction. let's face it, Malawian guys are fun,funny and also know how to blow your mind when they feel like it. Damn, you don't know what your missing gal! But then again if your used to going out with "our indians" back home then what else are you going to aspire to?

Oh! i get it. malawian guys want **** your ***** so you think that as long as some none African is willing to eat the tuna then they are better than our brothers? Have you ever tried asking that brother to eat your tuna? Cos as they say, ask and you shall be given.

Man, your a lost soul. I feel sorry for you. Don't dis our Malawian guys coz no one else will ever understand you like they will!

So take your fake,black,ugly self and go hung yourself. Our brothers don't want you anyway coz you ain't worth it.

Oh! And by the way, Malawian guys rock in bed!

Brandy1 · Veteran Member

quote:
Originally posted by: MISS THANG
Oh! And by the way, Malawian guys rock in bed! "

Amen to that my sista, and by the way Plato, check with your papa (oh yeah the one from malawi), he used to treat me so good back when I was home, of course we had a fling between us and he still remains the best I ever had. Tell him I still miss him though I know he wasn't going to divorce his wife.

LONG LIVE KAMUZU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Njiba · Veteran Member

Lets not waste time with this attention seeking, ignorant witch. If thats the way she feels .. fine, why should i ( or anyone else ) care. From this posting and others i have read from her it is quite obvious kuti alibe nzeru, who needs that kind of crap ? Iya !!

-- Edited by Njiba at 08:53, 2005-02-25

Paudah_Paf · Member

Silly woman.

Don't stereotype us, and do NOT disrespect us.

South Africans, Tswanas and Zimbos positively loathe Malawian men because we take all their women with our gentle natures and unreserved love-making.

You should be so lucky though, hope you find what you're looking for Plato.

Miss_Thang, Tiyende, Brandy1 and all y'all lovely ladies who stuck up for your bruvs, ZIKOMO.

We got nothin but love for you and we're waiting for the day we can be with you again coz we miss you.

You could say we're not the best, we certainly are NOT the worst.

MAILOSI · Newbie

MALAWIAN GUYS ARE THE BEST

Afana · Newbie

RE: what??? looking for who??? why???

plato042002 · Veteran Member

i have been in this country since i was five years old, i don't really hang out with malawians so shovel it........ ugly people say ugly things???? huh.. i remember that saying, i said it in one of my entries, stop being a copy cat, come up with something original, i don't need any attention from you all, i just said the truth, and as they say, the truth hurts, and i think i can tell from your replies, like i said, girls don't let your girls date malawian men, they are sorry and they like to put women down, they do it all the time on this forum. sorry baby, this bitch aint anyway close to ugly, i will tell you that right now. fortunately i am in a relationship so i wouldn't want a malawian guy to ask me out. i think in life you choose to be happy or not to be, i choose to be happy, so i do without malawian guys, most of things i learnt about malawian guys are from this forum, they talk so bad about their women, and they try to act like they are all that, skinny little asses, do you know the meaning of a gym???? you are right, i wouldn't go out with a malawian guy, i am not attracted to them, they are too skinny and too short for moi. sorry gentlemen for hurting your feelings, but i just had to let it out, its the truth, so wipe your tears and take it like a men. also my papa is not malawian, yes my beautiful mother is..........

i read on this forum that malawian guys will date a girl and if she breaks up with them they will tell other guys bad things about the girl, that are not neccessary true, now what kind of childish crap is that????? instead of getting mad at me, go brush your teeth, and head for the gym. you are a disgrace to the human race!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! get mad some more, just remember, if its the truth, plato will always speak it..........

plato042002 · Veteran Member

if thats all you know, of course you would say comments like those, malawian men rock in bed???? please don't say that out loud, even the monkeys will laugh at you. by the way is this the bitch everyone talks about..........blind people know you're coming coz they can smell you from ten miles away?????? sleeping with malawian men will do it to you. by the way my dog had a thing with your mama..........and your mama liked his dog style.........LOL

go ahead......i will say it again, words aint gonna break moi.........by the way tell your malawian boyfriend to try the gym, you know what that is?????????? just wondering.....

MISS THANG · Senior Member

quote:
Originally posted by: plato042002
"if thats all you know, of course you would say comments like those, malawian men rock in bed???? please don't say that out loud, even the monkeys will laugh at you. by the way is this the bitch everyone talks about..........blind people know you're coming coz they can smell you from ten miles away?????? sleeping with malawian men will do it to you. by the way my dog had a thing with your mama..........and your mama liked his dog style.........LOL go ahead......i will say it again, words aint gonna break moi.........by the way tell your malawian boyfriend to try the gym, you know what that is?????????? just wondering....."

EMPTY CANS MAKE A LOT OF NOISE

money low · Veteran Member

quote:
Originally posted by: plato042002
"if thats all you know, of course you would say comments like those, malawian men rock in bed???? please don't say that out loud, even the monkeys will laugh at you. by the way is this the bitch everyone talks about..........blind people know you're coming coz they can smell you from ten miles away?????? sleeping with malawian men will do it to you. by the way my dog had a thing with your mama..........and your mama liked his dog style.........LOL go ahead......i will say it again, words aint gonna break moi.........by the way tell your malawian boyfriend to try the gym, you know what that is?????????? just wondering....."

i must hand it to you youre dog has skills,

he learned it from the best, you bitch!

plato youre mama has a dick,

plato i thought you said some **** about you being at bishop mackezie, and ****

now youre claimin you been a broad since you were five.

youre just a lyin bitch, tryin to get some attention,

i know youre type,

you must have had it tough when growin up, now after wipin peoples bums in home(not that i ve go any thing against it) you think that youre all that, so you can now come on the net, and spit all types of **** about the things you never had,pretend to know people you never knew, and worse of all disss fellow malawians.

plato i think youre dads malawian and its youre mom who smells,and people can smell her from ten miles away. any way who wouldnt smell, sellin delunde in the outskirts of lilongwe, kwa kawuma to be more preceice, to make ends meet,

why do you go buy youre mom a tooth brush first..

hey plato youre mama likes to suck dick. ur borin go slush youre wrist or something please

Njiba · Veteran Member

I know that by putting up this post I am breaking the proposal i am about to present , but hey somebody has just got to do it. Ladies and gentlemen on this forum the best way to treat plato is to not respond to her. It is obvious that she does not get enough attention from her boyfriend ( i hope you see this homeboy, help your girl out) and her family ( check out Freud's super ego Plato ). This is why out of the blue , i guess when things get rough, she will come out with some garbage like this then wont say anything for a while - this is her release. We all do release once in a while but most, no , everyone i know makes sure that their form of release does not bring discomfort to others.

I move to strike JS, Let us evaluate what free speech is , should we really let this teeny bopper spew out this garbage and absolutely diss a common trait every one has on this forum - being proud to be Malawian? Plato i do not know where your father is from but i wouldnt even think of going onto another nationality's website and dissing them, it just would not serve any intrisinc need. I know you think you have a life but next time you look in the mirror realise that your form of existence is absolutley pathetic and I have nothing but pity for you. Can you imagine that your existence is actually dependent on people saying something to you ?... anything... olo akutukwane you look forward to it, you keep checking up on your computer saying " what did those skinny, short monkeys say about me this time?". The sad thing is that you enjoy it, it's probably the only dialogue you get at the end of your day because everyone arround you figured you out... and they got tired .. just like I and other people on this forum have. Check yourself before you are left by yourself. Want to prove me wrong? let's see if you are not going to respond.

To my country men and those who are not from Malawi but who mingle well on this forum I apologise for this outburst, conclusively my proposal is let us just ignore her. I also noticed that i changed the manner in which i addressed my subject from - in the third person to in the second person,my English teachers would find me at fault. I know this beetch didnt notice, what does she know anyway?

straightfire · Newbie

quote:
Originally posted by: plato042002
"i have been in this country since i was five years old, i don't really hang out with malawians so shovel it........ ugly people say ugly things????.... most of things i learnt about malawian guys are from this forum, they talk so bad about their women, and they try to act like they are all that, skinny little asses, do you know the meaning of a gym???? you are right, i wouldn't go out with a malawian guy, i am not attracted to them, they are too skinny and too short for moi. ........ also my papa is not malawian, yes my beautiful mother is.......... i read on this forum that malawian guys will date a girl and if she breaks up with them they will tell other guys bad things about the girl, that are not neccessary true, now what kind of childish crap is that????? instead of getting mad at me, go brush your teeth, and head for the gym. you are a disgrace to the human race!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ........"

plato042002, for fairness sake, possibly you could do yourself a lot of favour by shutting your mouth up. Firstly, upon your own admission you say you havent been in Malawi since you were five. I wonder how much of our beautiful country you remember, if you have any memories at all. You claim Malawian men are short and skinny...which ones have you seen? Look at this one, and I am not the only one, tall, dark and I would say athletic. I exercise in the gym atleast 3 times a week. For goodness sake, both my parents are Malawian, they have no lineages whatsoever to any other nationality. So how dare you say whatever crap you are pouring out?

Would I be wrong to say that the crap you are writing here was fed to you by your mother after she "failed" to get a Malawian man? I am using the word "failed" because whoever fed you with the crap must really have a thing against Malawian men. Members of the forum, do you think we have any chance of changing someone's perspective which she has held since the age of five? I think we are wasting our time. She has a serious stereotype that is beyond repair.

Then plato goes ahead to say Malawian men are a disgrace to the human race!!! Ha! Ha! ha! I think the opposite is true. Someone who holds a serious stereotype such as this against part of her ancestry really is a disgrace to the human race. Possibly, worse off than the Nazi. Your beautiful mama wouldnt be there if not for a malawian man, unless she is also not fully Malawian. In which case, I would say, you dont belong here and dont waste our time! fellow netters have told you in plain language that all nationalities are the same. There are those who are capable and others who are not. Dont marriages and relationships break in America because of sexual incompetence? Are police services not overwhelmed in America because of the many cases of wife battering and other abuses against the woman? Ooh gal, you speak as if you are in a vacuum where people dont know what is happening where you are! Wake up, the world is global now and people know way too much about each other.

Bad mouthing each other after a relationship is also not unique to Malawian men. By the way, not all Malawian men do that. I can testify about myself that I dont. I am sure the majority of guys on this forum would say the same. So plato042002, I think you dont have issues. Accept that your's is a stereotype. Dont make others feel with you.

One last question: Do you really feel Malawian? I am sure there is nothing wrong with asking you this question. Your contribution clearly shows you dont and I wonder what you are doing on this forum!! Just thinking aloud.

sepusepu · Senior Member

Plato,

countries around the world worry about their people migrating you are one person who we will never miss in malawi.You are straight ignorant and dumm.If this is what you call a choice to be happy then you have no clue what happy is.Your tone doesnt sound like you are a happy person. You are talking about malawian men should go to the gym, this brother is on an athletic scholarship on a top 20 NAIA soccer team in the US if you know what that means. In every society there are the meek and the evil ones, the ugly and the good looking, do not judge people as a group.If you have had a bad experience with a Malawian guy doesnt mean that every one is like that.

I am proud to be a malawian man, Phongo yapamalawi.God bless the land of malawi.

dont talk the talk but rather walk the talk

sepu sepu

phoebs · Member

plato,

m sure since you've been in the western world for such a long time you are conversant with therapies and stuff, cause i feel you are desperately crying out for one. you need a doctor to psycho-analyse your brains cause girl you are harboring so much hate. Do something before its too late.

someone said something about you being ignorant, am thinking its way more deeper than that. it's undescribable and pathetic!

get a grip over your sanity!

big poppa · Newbie

wow

i dont know who the hell you think you are but let me break it down for yah.iam a malawian guy it just hurts to hear those words from you because all those options of men you have in america also come with defferent characters. just like malawian men. good and loving, bad and ugly no matter what kind of race u **** with.iam sorry if your no good unloving cheating father was bad to your mama but some of us have good, hard working, god fearing and loving fathers not forgetting succesful and we are PROUD of that and if you know me you can follow my path of success and see......oooh **** i forgot your too blinded by ur ugly ass. YOU CANT SEE ME

to all malawian guys if ur a playa go ahead and play playa

if ur a lover go ahead Do that damn thang

we all not the same thats how it was ment to be

baby girl u need to holla at a few malawians and see what ur missing. PULP FICTION

HOLLA