TOUGH WOMEN

CHILUNGAMOBASI · Newbie

TOUGH WOMEN

matilda_888 · Newbie

On behalf of all the other strong malawian women out there, I am humbled by your compliment. I hope we continue to stand up for ourselves, express ourselves with conviction and hopefully inspire others to do the same.

Keep it up ladies!

-- Edited by matilda_888 at 16:23, 2004-10-21

Ayatollah · Senior Member

quote:
Originally posted by: matilda_888
"On behalf of all the other strong malawian women out there, I am humbled by your compliment. I hope we continue to stand up for ourselves, express ourselves with conviction and hopefully inspire others to do the same. Keep it up ladies! -- Edited by matilda_888 at 16:23, 2004-10-21"

Matilda, are you crazy? Why are you reaching out for the compliment when you know you ain't contributed nothing in this place. Looking in the archives show that you have only two postings under your belt. This infuriates the hell out of me. It reminds me of some lazy ass sitting phwii and trying to take credit for what others have done. Wait a minute, In all honesty, I think the complimentary posting was directed towards strong Malawian women and not your lazy ass. When I talk of strong Malawian women on this forumn, we are talking of the likes of Brandy, Mammacita, Phoebs, just to mention a few. I do not see why you jumped into this whole issue.

The Advocate · Newbie

quote:
Originally posted by: Ayatollah
"Matilda, are you crazy? Why are you reaching out for the compliment when you know you ain't contributed nothing in this place. Looking in the archives show that you have only two postings under your belt. This infuriates the hell out of me. It reminds me of some lazy ass sitting phwii and trying to take credit for what others have done. Wait a minute, In all honesty, I think the complimentary posting was directed towards strong Malawian women and not your lazy ass. When I talk of strong Malawian women on this forumn, we are talking of the likes of Brandy, Mammacita, Phoebs, just to mention a few. I do not see why you jumped into this whole issue. "

Ayatollah, ndiwedi chitsilu! Didn't Matilda say 'on behalf of...?". So what if she's only posted 2 messages on the board? I bet there are many strong women who visit this site and haven't posted anything. So should they not take the initiative to write in response to a good posting like the one Chilungamobasi posted just because they haven't posted anything at all? If you can't come up with anything wise, please, do everyone a favor and just shut up!

The Advocate · Newbie

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Originally posted by: CHILUNGAMOBASI
"Reading posts by some female members tells me we got tough women from the mother land who can step up and say how they feel. I like that and keep it up,regardless of WHO you are and WHAT you look like.Get your education,wealth or oversees ideas and experience so that the local Malawian woman can benefit from you. GOD BLESS ACHILU"

I agree with you, Chilu. Some women and men here put really wise posts. It's a shame that there is an idiot called Ayatollah on this site who seems to have nothing but nonsense in his vocabulary.

Jade · Newbie

This is pathetic ladies or should i say Ayatollah or whatever u call yourself - some dude is paying a compliment to all the ladies and yet there you are insulting your fellow woman just because she accepted the compliment? Where are you from woman!!! its people like you who don't respect yourselves or others, who can't differentiate things and make good judgement, wo can't think straight - Its peole like you who really put women down....

All you had to say was 'thanks' or 'no thank you' after the compliment or keep your mouth shut or say something wise, educative, meaningful...but not insulting your fellow woman for acknowledging the compliment...

The funny thing is you can write all you like but what you have to ask yourself is :- Are you making any sound contributions, or are you just making a fool of yourself everytime you write or reply to someone else's posting.....you do that girl before insulting someone for not writing as much as you do!!!

Jade · Newbie

So Ayatolla is male - whatever but my point still stands whatever sex you are - never insult anyone unless you are sure that whatever you write is meaningful or makes sense...if you get my point..

Its Kind of embarrassing as well Ayatollah don't u think? the compliment is for women...then why they hell are you rubbing your noise in it? are you jealous or something , please let me know what you are up to - coz it doesn't make any sense to me at all.

matilda_888 · Newbie

Aww...temper temper my dear, no need to get your boxers all in a twist So I haven't contributed to the forum you're absolutely right, and so the hell what? I really don't feel I need to defend myself for accepting this compliment, but as far as I'm concerned I identified with that woman he was refering to, and I know that there are many girls out there who can too. As simple as that.

Its so funny, this comment had absolutely nothing to do with you, but yet you still felt the need to get all irate. Why? I'll tell you why, cause you are so good at criticising other people, you can't take the heat when its thrown back at you, in reference to my previous comment, which I know you read.

So anyways, as the record shows from all the other malawians logging on and have the unfortunate task of reading your bulls**t, you've literally shot yourself in the foot. You're mouth is really getting the better of you at this point so it is in your best interest Mr Grand A. that you keep you're ignorance to yourself, cause taking low blows at women, and in particular, this woman, is not a very manly thing.

Am I right people? or am I right?

_888

-- Edited by matilda_888 at 09:19, 2004-10-22

Mesmerise · Newbie

Damn right Gurl

phoebs · Member

hie Y'all, Ever heard of the saying that when you are arguing with a fool you are arguing with yourself. The deal is am not trying to sound wise or anything, or pretend I know better than all Y'all but if you assume that the other person is talking rubbish, don't give them the satisfaction by being worked up over it. But then again I happen to enjoy it when people run their mouths (or hands on their keyboard) That bottom line, I love reading all y'all.

Chilu, thanks for the complment tho'.