WHO AM I?

YTP · Guru

WHO AM I?

bingiza · Guru

Plans are made but circumstances, extended families, nsanje, kaduka ndi kusaganizilana leads to frustration.

Atame · Veteran Member

competition is the key to prosperity, coz it makes u to work hard to be above all koma competition yake
ikaphatikizana with jelousy thats where the problem comes coz mumafuna kugwetsanano thats when we give these amweye mpata or u say bola mwenye atukuke kusiyana ndi ATAME chifukwa ativuta

bingiza · Guru

Amwenye have an unfair advantage imagine being given a loan at a bank security being a galimoto yomwe anakongola ku kampani ya mmwenye nzake, pamene akudafe amakanilatu.

awmygawd · Guru

bingiza wrote:
Plans are made but circumstances, extended families, nsanje, kaduka ndi kusaganizilana leads to frustration.

True. There's no shortage of things out there to derail ones plans. It's important to have aspirations and to work towards them, just don't commit yourself to a plan so long term its bound to fail anyway. I'm finding it wiser to focus on shorter term, stand alone targets that will (hopefully) accumulate to the achievement of my own long term aspirations. That fable about the dying old man and his sons comes to mind; it's easier to break the individual sticks that make up a bundle than it is to break the bundle as a whole.

Pope · Guru

YTP wrote:

If someone was to ask who you are, i wonder how many of us would answer straight away without having to think about what to say? Some people always try to find out where they want to be in the next five years but then how many of us care about things like the future, goals, and what can be done to better other lives who are less fortunate than ourselves? Better still, better our country? As i sit pakhonde la agogo anga i look around me and see so many things that needs to be done but am waiting for someone else to come and do the work.. Instead of encouraging each other to move forward, most of us are trying to compete among ourselves and in the long run leave space for amwanye kutipondereza even when its our birthright.

thats the power of failure and mind you minus that its prosperity.Amwanye satipondereza koma they only take advantage of our ignorance.Why do Nigerians compete with amwanye.

For example( no offence intended) how many of us have some plans for his kids apart for giving them education and leave them to fend on their own?

YTP · Guru

Pope wrote:

For example( no offence intended) how many of us have some plans for his kids apart for giving them education and leave them to fend on their own?

I get your point Pope, on the other hand, imagine leaving wealth to your children without education. How do they run businesses if they dont have the knowledge or skills?

It is believed that it's easy to misuse wealth of any form if you havent worked for it or have no idea of the hard work inputted. The best a parent can do is open all doors so that kids can have the freedom to choose on life with guidance of-course.

-- Edited by YTP at 14:21, 2007-04-20

YTP · Guru

And Nigerians amalimbana ndi amwenye because they are as cunning as them. Nigerians help each other big time where a malawian would not even attempt to help.....zimakanika kumuuza nzako how to go about doing something zomuthandiza because you feel akuposa or mufanana. It's just this zeal to be above someone all the time that degresses our nation. Mtima woti ife ndife patown pano.