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ZILEMBWE


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akulakulu,tandithandizani nzanune ndagwidwa njakata.A boss anga(a miss)akukhala ngati alinane nkhani.She has been showing me some greenlights for sometime now.She has thrice took me out for a dinner one on my birthday,on her's too and recently on valentines day.She has also been bombarding me with winkings,some aldut sms,flying kisses and everymorning hugs.She has been talking of how she loves black men.ndayamba kumupengera koma ndili ndi mantha.My only fear is,If I propose she may rebuff me and I may ended up being kuchosedwa vepi.Akuluakulu ndimufunsire?koma nanga akandikana sandichotsa vepi?nditani pamenepa?Amuna tokhatokha tandithandizani? 



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Ndiwe kape if I were you bwezi pano tikuti akuyembekezela.Anyway go for her in diplomatic way osangoti mayi ndikukufunani ayi mwina iyeyo akuti ndiwe wake kale.

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mizu yapasi wrote:

Ndiwe kape if I were you bwezi pano tikuti akuyembekezela.Anyway go for her in diplomatic way osangoti mayi ndikukufunani ayi mwina iyeyo akuti ndiwe wake kale.
Ameneyo anatheka kale. Kumufunsira panopa umukhumudwitsa, iye akuona ngati anagwidwa kale. Iwenso ungopitiridza ngati kuti pali chibwenzi kale. Tell her that you wanna take her out for dinner then invite her to your place. But first day don't do anything with her, its the second invitation when you start caressing, kissing and more.
 




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koma language madala. LANGUAGE! nGATI CHINGEDE CHAKE CHILI CHOMWE CHA APACHI...........TINGOTI PEPANI.

Kodi mwati ndi mzungu ati? zabwino zonse!!!!



Ndi OSAMA BASI!!!!!

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Hey brova!Whats up wit u?go on and hit the jackpot.Mwayi siubwela kawili.Anzako achangu akuzulira.Tommorow try ur luck and ask her if she's free to go out for dinner and then formally propose asati zomwe akunena enawa ayi.

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This is flirting be very careful with what your forum pals are telling you. U dint say if she is committed or stuff, my take is you want to get favours from your boss you are such a freak. Is this your first environment to work with a woman boss?

I urge you to be very careful with what you do next, she is your workmate and toying around with you. Amalawi vuto ndi chani mkazi asacheze mowonjeza.

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what do the policy documents at your work place say on relationships "a man and a woman at the same work place". Chifukwatu pali Wena salola mchitidwe umenewu ku office and mind you that you may end up loosing your job.

-- Edited by winiko at 08:56, 2007-02-20

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what do the policy documents at your work place say on relationships "a man and a woman at the same work place". Chifukwatu pali Wena salola mchitidwe umenewu ku office and mind you that you may end up loosing your job.

-- Edited by winiko at 08:56, 2007-02-20

 



True. And given that she's your boss, things could get very complicated for the both of you if she is perceived as giving you preferential treatment. And if your relationship goes sour eventually (always a possibility), you will find yourself in a very awkward position; having an ex for your boss. Tread carefully.

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You should have asked b4 you accepted ma dinner. Now its too late, the woman is actually planning to go astep further by inviting you to bed. Ndiye inu poti ma dinner ake mwadya kale how are you going to say no. If you say no you will be in trouble.

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ZILEMBWE wrote:

akulakulu,tandithandizani nzanune ndagwidwa njakata.A boss anga(a miss)akukhala ngati alinane nkhani.She has been showing me some greenlights for sometime now.She has thrice took me out for a dinner one on my birthday,on her's too and recently on valentines day.She has also been bombarding me with winkings,some aldut sms,flying kisses and everymorning hugs.She has been talking of how she loves black men.ndayamba kumupengera koma ndili ndi mantha.My only fear is,If I propose she may rebuff me and I may ended up being kuchosedwa vepi.Akuluakulu ndimufunsire?koma nanga akandikana sandichotsa vepi?nditani pamenepa?Amuna tokhatokha tandithandizani? 



you seem to be an amatuer when it comes to male/female relations. mkaziyo pano akuyesa you were castrated (sumatchaja) ukufuna azachite kukuvulila? handle your business but dont get too commited, she might just want the love making!!!!



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Mpatse mimba!!Iwe basi ndiwamuyaya komwe uliko!!Makamaka ngati Visa yako yili 02% active

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Will people like Nyenga pliz stop posting after coming from the toilet or with a joint in hand, u dont dont make no **** around here.

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I cant understand what you want us to say to you . Have you ever been laid before you seem like an amateur to me.
Just move one step then she will be in your bed ,
Abwana ndi amene ife timachita nawo , ususe mwa abwanawo mokwana angadzayambe kuuza anthu kuti ukuchepera

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utiuze ngati zaeyenda,wangoti ziii bwanji.Anakukana etiii?



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ZILEMBWE wrote:

akulakulu,tandithandizani nzanune ndagwidwa njakata.A boss anga(a miss)akukhala ngati alinane nkhani.She has been showing me some greenlights for sometime now.She has thrice took me out for a dinner one on my birthday,on her's too and recently on valentines day.She has also been bombarding me with winkings,some aldut sms,flying kisses and everymorning hugs.She has been talking of how she loves black men.ndayamba kumupengera koma ndili ndi mantha.My only fear is,If I propose she may rebuff me and I may ended up being kuchosedwa vepi.Akuluakulu ndimufunsire?koma nanga akandikana sandichotsa vepi?nditani pamenepa?Amuna tokhatokha tandithandizani? 



Kususuka amalawi,izo kwa zungu ndi normal kucheza ndi ma juniors,inu mwati akukugomerani,muluza nazo ntchito.Mkwere uone.


-- Edited by Pope at 12:23, 2007-03-01

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Try a one night stand thing!!!! maybe thats what the lady has in mind, not a total romance. it would appear from your statement you are already dreaming in colours of a grand wedding.

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Pope wrote:

Kususuka amalawi,izo kwa zungu ndi normal kucheza ndi ma juniors,inu mwati akukugomerani,muluza nazo ntchito.Mkwere uone.

Hmmm.....HA HA HA HA!!!!



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Munthu asakuonetse dzino basi akukufuna? Anthu ena munakhala bwanji? Yesa uwone uyaluke. All those dinners will be a thing of the past.

-- Edited by Tango at 16:26, 2007-03-01

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Munthu asakuonetse dzino basi akukufuna? Anthu ena munakhala bwanji? Yesa uwone uyaluke. All those dinners will be a thing of the past.

-- Edited by Tango at 16:26, 2007-03-01
Usafooke,enawa sanalandileko ma green lights.


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winiko wrote:

what do the policy documents at your work place say on relationships "a man and a woman at the same work place". Chifukwatu pali Wena salola mchitidwe umenewu ku office and mind you that you may end up loosing your job.

-- Edited by winiko at 08:56, 2007-02-20
Asakuopseze!Kodi khani imeniyi mpaka policy documents.Thats a personal private issue sizamuofesi ayi.Ndili ine bwezi pano tikukamba zina



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kodi nkhaniyi siinathebe?koma ukanabwera ndikutifotokozela kuti zili pati?chifukwa tizingovutika mwina unakadidwa kale.



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